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Improve - Noisecontrollers
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Fiesta (Vinyltronic Remix) - B-Rey & Mattey Meets DJ Bolek
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single
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the guys tried to kill me or burn me on my leg..when i was treated him so good I have been burned a lot too, I think most of us have. Sucks. Every time I try to take away at least one "red flag" from the situation. If there was anything I did wrong at any point I would put that info away too. I would always start with, "why did I bother talking to this person?" Hopefully you can ID the losers before you start with them. |
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India jump! (Rockatanz extended remix) - Chris Van Dutch vs Floorfilla
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Words from the Gang (D-Block & S-Te-Fan Remix) - Coone
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aw thank you. I know I'm young. I just want a boy to call my own:( I am curious. Have you ever dated guys who are more shy and reserved? I am wondering if a wallflower would work out better. The guys who are out there talking to ever woman are not the best IMO beyond one night stands. I think a shy guy if you can find him, will appreciate you more, be less likely to stray. G/L... |
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Sorry to hear about the guys Princess. Stupid jerks. I hate guys. I hear what they say when women are not around and they are so full of crap. I smile, nod my head and think about how insincere they are. Hang in there though. A couple are worth the effort. Never give up.
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It's FINALLY here...!
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Deja vu!
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RATE ME!
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Body is a 9. You look like you have put in some time. Uh, I mean working out, not at prison. LOL!
Your face pics are not there and you are wearing a cap so how is the hair? I am giving you credit for having a manhood can stand up + the lower legs match the upper half. Get some pics of you smiling without the cap and you could be going to a 10. Nice huh? Except don't open your mouth on the dates. People are basing on you and you are turning it back on them showing an ugly side. I'll have to give you a net of -2 there, ignore them and nod up and down on your dates. So we're talking a 7 or an 8 with face pictures. Ooga-wooga! |
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Edited by
DestinysDream
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Tue 08/12/08 06:00 PM
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Yes its true that she talks to allot of her friends that way. We just talked about it some more and sais that its just her way of talking and that the I love you does not mean the same as when she sais it to me... I totally believe her. I used to do the same exact thing with my ex. Since then we do it only on occasion and in a very casual sort of way. She is a friend, a damn good friend now. If she was hiding it then you should worry, but now she may as you told her it bugs you. Still totally innocent. Edit: Oh and for the record, I spent the last three months with my ex by sleeping on the couch every night. I would never think of getting together with her again. *shivers* She's a great person and that's it. |
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"New Girl Friend is HIV Positive"
Hmm, I remember your pic. Is this the same girl friend as in this thread? I think you are over reacting. Now if she calls him "Pookie" and makes noises like she is kissing him it's different. She says these things and you are around. Does that sound like someone who is cheating on you or has feelings other than being platonic for someone else? Think man, think! |
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lied and in too deap
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as a man, (mind u he is a devout Christian who honors truth and honesty....) would u be able to forgive someone for lying about there kids after a year....thats the key, "A YEAR..." we talked everyday, multiple times a day about "us". I guess i got caught up in this fantasy and really grew to like him. He fell in love with someone he thought I was.. Never lied about me being married but told him my relationship was headed towards divorce... and that I was unhappy in it... the only lie , and i am not minimizing anything, is about having children. I told him many times that I wanted to tell him something and hoped he wouldn't judge me... but never brought myself to say it. Oh thats right he is religious! Well, forget any return to love. He will forgive you on a spiritual level but if there is a stone around and he can't find his script. Oooo, I'd duck. You are still trying to justify your actions and that's ok because that head and body are attached and aren't going anywhere. You will need to find a way to live beyond this. So justify away, whatever works for you. Your previous comment about him not wanting to know and just go away. That is cold. Why are you even here? Is this your act of cleansing so you don't have to face it with your two men? Anyways I am out of this thread. I don't think you have a problem other than your feelings of remorse. Learn something and move on in life. Gotta get back to the Olympics. The Judo last night on-line was great but that poor guy was robbed. You know what though? He is still alive and well. |
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To be clear, because I just got a few emails, I don't want to work things out, I just want to know if there's a trick to making my heart not love him anymore... that sounds silly I know but it's so hard when I see him, and he wants a hug or something more, not to want to do it back. I've never been married and no kids. I have been in love and know the heartache. What a bother, it sucks. The only thing you can do is keep moving along through the days and slowly things will start to get better. Think deep wound that needs healing. It's the same thing here. You know how they say love will find you when you least expect it? (Something like that). Same thing when you fall out of love. One day blammo, actually make that ka-blammo, the love hasn't been felt or fed and will die out. The memories of it will still be there but that is not the same thing at all. You will now go through pangs of love/regret/etc. Just keep going along and like an overweight person trying to diet or a smoker trying to quit the feelings will pass. Guaranteed(some restrictions apply). |
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lied and in too deap
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The other guy sounds like he knows he is getting played. He is saying he wants to know facts like the flight number. He isn't talking to you too much. Did you tell a lot of lies and promises you haven't kept and now the house of cards is falling down around you?
If I was this younger man you met I would be so hurt if you told me all the lies. Still that is the thing I would want is to know - the truth. I have a really big heart and would probably still want you to be into it. Ahh...but then the details. There would be a lot of trust issues. You have kids? They mean more to you than myself? So you are not going to move here? You have to get a divorce? You aren't sure you want one because you put so much time into the marriage? Did you write that or did I misunderstand? If you did, guess the reaction after you tell him that? |
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Friends List??????
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"These are people you've befriended." My first friend never comes here anymore. My second friend deactivated months ago without saying a word. My third friend I don't want to talk about. My fourth friend won't talk to me too much but she is in love. My fifth friend is also in love but keeps deactivating because she is sick of the **** here. I could go on if I had a better memory. I love to look at the smiling faces of my friends and how we met, or our interactions. Still a few smiling faces are now not there and that's sad. It's only a website right? right??? Let's say it together ......... (((((((( IT'S THE INTERNET )))))))))) I wonder if our parents used to say: (((((((ITS THE KIWANIS CLUB))))))) |
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what is..
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3 days Yup the same here. It ended really fast too. |
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Odysee (Rock Thiz! Remix) - Scarf!
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question for the men
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There are a lot of pluses and minuses to dating a woman with a child or children. It's true that she will make her decisions based on what's best for the kids, but that is what a mother is supposed to do isn't it. I think the big problem is when a man comes into the picture that is not the childrens father, especially if the children are old enough to understand that daddy is not there anymore. To many men want to try and replace the "father" figure in the household. The biggest part isn't trying to replace dad, but to get the children to understand that you are not there to replace dad, but that you will have a special love for them as well as their mother. I think women have a little thing in the back of their heads also when they get into a relationship with a new man that he might try to do just that. I don't have a problem dating a woman with children as I myself have a wonderful daughter, but the women need to realize that I'm not trying to replace anyone either, I'm just trying to get them to accept me for me, not compare me to what went wrong in their previous life. At heart, I don't think that most people want to accept that their previous relationship (if relatively long term) can truly be over. I think that has a lot more to do with it than the actual children per say. Absolutely a mom should feel the kids are the most important thing. So you are going into the relationship not really as an equal. It doesn't spell absolute doom but can make things difficult. The problem is the amount of weight given to the children in her decision making process. Logic can be thrown out the window in favor of "mother's instinct". I think you as a single dad would do much better with a single mom. In fact, a single woman without kids would have the same problems as her male counterpart. I would encourage all parents to date other single parents. I have seen it as a requirement on a lot of profiles. "Must have kids." I have spoken to women and told them I do not want to be their father. I can be their friend. I have said discipline would be up to them. Both I could tell were not well received. I found that odd but it is how things would have been. I also said I would not question any decision she make with the kids and would "back her up". Better reaction but still I think many mothers are looking for that dad to their kids. I would love to hear the pluses in dating a mom if you were a single male without children. I can think of the pluses a single dad with child(ren) would get. |
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Goof asks......
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I do. I'm not a woman but I think it turns some on to see that imagery. I think it also carries into the relationship. The "bad boy" does something which is asinine but the woman forgives him. Why? Do women think he is a "bad boy" therefore the bad behavior is part of his image?
Oh what a tangled web we weave. |
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question for the men
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I am not on the "market" but I would advise men to be very careful when dating women who have young children.
The girl-friend will make decisions she perceives to the correct ones based upon what she "feels" is best for her child(ren) not you or your relationship. You are not the parent therefore any advice you offer will carry very little weight. Should you question the decision she will bring that point up to you, leaving you speechless. Does any of this sound healthy to a relationship? Does it sound unrealistic that a mom would act that way? I don't think so based off of personal experience and what I have read here. I really want to know the pluses in dating a single mom. Can someone tell me? |
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