That is a generational difference, and I agree. I was involved with a 30 year-old for three years when I was 18. If I could re-do that, I wouldn't. He gave a lot to me, but took more.

I do not think I can go more than plus or minus seven or eight years now, but I'm in my mid thirties and can get away with both. Anything over 40 is getting out there. My ex was 45, and I struggled with that sometimes. I try to look at the big and little pictures with that one. But I respect everyone's thoughts, and try to treat each person as an individual. I am reluctant in that area though, no doubt.