I'd say that the best thing to do is continue to point out what his going on to the little girl. No parent should be able to stand seeing that happen to their child. I know I can't stand to see anything happen to my son. But it does happen, and if he's a good parent, he will see it and make a change for his little girl. If it gets to the point that nothing gets done, you may have to seek outside help. But that can be a very risky thing to do. I wouldn't want to see anything happen that could get his daughter taken away from him. But he does need to spend more time with her.