Guy's that-
Disrespectful
Innapproriate touching
Suggestive remarks about sex
Bragging about how popular he is with the ladies
Bad hygiene
Loud and cursing
Talking about ex
Sloppy dressed
Filthy car

There is more to this than this little box has room for. I have known this guy from high school. I never dated him till 3 years ago! We both have been married a couple of times. We have talked about the trama the divorces have left and the commitment phobia that he has. The non talking for days is not on regular base it's when something triggers him and he goes into this shut down depressed stay to him self mode! He not only shuts me out but everyone eles also! As I said before We both have tried to move on but we seperated for months with no communication but not able to move forward.We have tried the friend thing but can't do that either.

Not sleeping together

Thanks for the respond... It is a he! I'm female :) but very helpful in site!

I understand! I guess I already knew the answer....Only hoped there was a hope :( think it also didn't help that the one time I tried to move on with someone eles was not such a great experience.

I wonder sometimes if its because I'm just not the right one

If the person you love is commitment phobia ....help me understand this person ...one day they are talking about how much you mean to them and then can go days with no contact? Been going through this for almost 3 years ...ugh!