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Hey Jon and Lady, how's it going?
ere'  Lady
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I got a boo-boo :(
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Have a cold beer (or 10), smoke a bowl and you'll be just fine.
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When you get stopped by the police and they tell you that
they are going to search your car. 
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Sex is a definite plus!  But not a absolute requirement if you find the person who fits your heart. I've said it before, I'll say it again. If the tongue ain't paralyzed..we're good!   
You said it baby
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That is a sick poem IMO What else could "daddy's hands" do in the name of love? Spanking is a violent act. If I smack someone, even it it doesn't hurt them it is considered a violent act and I can go to jail for it. Again, talk to ANY cop and they will tell you there is A difference (Though it is a fine line) between abuse and discipline. |
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The ideal that spanking does something positive is a tradition in our societies. It isn't provable and should be in fact be more disprovable since it is a violent act perpetrated on very little being who cannot defend themselves. The absurdity of hitting those you love for their betterment is really absurd. There is a difference between spanking and abuse. Ask ANY cop. I bet if you asked the spanked child it would be abuse at the time. Well, no ****, just like if you ask any child if being grounded or having their play station taken away is abuse, they'll tell you it is. |
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The ideal that spanking does something positive is a tradition in our societies. It isn't provable and should be in fact be more disprovable since it is a violent act perpetrated on very little being who cannot defend themselves. The absurdity of hitting those you love for their betterment is really absurd. There is a difference between spanking and abuse. Ask ANY cop. |
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Between 1985 and 1993, violent crime actually decreased by 20 per cent among males 25 or older, while it increased 65 per cent for males 18 to 24 and by 165 per cent for 14- to 17-year-old males. So those who grew up in a period of more spanking were, and are, less violent than younger people who have grown up in a period of declining approval and practice of spanking. This does not prove that a decrease in spanking makes societies more violent, but these statistics throw cold water on any notion that blames spanking for societal violence. in the eighties and nineties, wife beating and domestic abuse were violent crimes,,, You can't prove they weren't spanked and therefore violent because of it...lol And you can't prove that they WERE spanked. |
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Edited by
kayak69
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Sun 08/01/10 05:16 PM
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The same time that the government stops getting into wars... This arguement will never be won, I agree that the teacher had no right whatsoever to hit the girl, but at the same time, why should the authorities raise our children for us. The parents should have been called when the girl kicked him and they should have dealt with her. I hate that people spank their children but if it works for them so be it. It is not my place to tell someone how to raise their children. I can tell you that if my kid hits me, i am not calling the police to deal with it. It's hard enough nowadays to raise children without other people telling them how to do it. Personally I have never seen a time out work, the parent usually ends up sitting in time out with the child to make sure they take the time out, and then, the kid goes right back to doing what they were put in time out for. There needs to be a good discipline system that is acceptable by all people and that will never happen as all kids are different. I agree to some extent. There are children who have never been struck and are CEOs of big companies today. We only hear about the bad kids. I just have never found one healthy conclusion from spanking. When someone hits us it brings fear, granted fear is a control but not a healthy one. Hitting doesn't teach respect or a healthy problem solving or anything basically except that someone will hit when they feel like it. And I know people that are CEOs, executives, managers, principles and even superintendents that have been spanked. What's your point? This is what I am referring to. The point is that there are lots of good non spanked adults in this world to date. And there are just as many good spanked ADULTS in this world to date. Again, what's your point? That is the point. Spanking is not the absolute guarantee of a good child. And not spanking is no guarantee of a good child either. Once again, what's your point? |
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The same time that the government stops getting into wars... This arguement will never be won, I agree that the teacher had no right whatsoever to hit the girl, but at the same time, why should the authorities raise our children for us. The parents should have been called when the girl kicked him and they should have dealt with her. I hate that people spank their children but if it works for them so be it. It is not my place to tell someone how to raise their children. I can tell you that if my kid hits me, i am not calling the police to deal with it. It's hard enough nowadays to raise children without other people telling them how to do it. Personally I have never seen a time out work, the parent usually ends up sitting in time out with the child to make sure they take the time out, and then, the kid goes right back to doing what they were put in time out for. There needs to be a good discipline system that is acceptable by all people and that will never happen as all kids are different. I agree to some extent. There are children who have never been struck and are CEOs of big companies today. We only hear about the bad kids. I just have never found one healthy conclusion from spanking. When someone hits us it brings fear, granted fear is a control but not a healthy one. Hitting doesn't teach respect or a healthy problem solving or anything basically except that someone will hit when they feel like it. And I know people that are CEOs, executives, managers, principles and even superintendents that have been spanked. What's your point? This is what I am referring to. The point is that there are lots of good non spanked adults in this world to date. And there are just as many good spanked ADULTS in this world to date. Again, what's your point? |
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The same time that the government stops getting into wars... This arguement will never be won, I agree that the teacher had no right whatsoever to hit the girl, but at the same time, why should the authorities raise our children for us. The parents should have been called when the girl kicked him and they should have dealt with her. I hate that people spank their children but if it works for them so be it. It is not my place to tell someone how to raise their children. I can tell you that if my kid hits me, i am not calling the police to deal with it. It's hard enough nowadays to raise children without other people telling them how to do it. Personally I have never seen a time out work, the parent usually ends up sitting in time out with the child to make sure they take the time out, and then, the kid goes right back to doing what they were put in time out for. There needs to be a good discipline system that is acceptable by all people and that will never happen as all kids are different. I agree to some extent. There are children who have never been struck and are CEOs of big companies today. We only hear about the bad kids. I just have never found one healthy conclusion from spanking. When someone hits us it brings fear, granted fear is a control but not a healthy one. Hitting doesn't teach respect or a healthy problem solving or anything basically except that someone will hit when they feel like it. And I know people that are CEOs, executives, managers, principles and even superintendents that have been spanked. What's your point? This is what I am referring to. |
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Yea, well that was fun and not so fun at the same time. Back to the teacher. He should have known better. Do you think he was spanked and just reacted? Do you think he was a spanking parent and just reacted? In this case it is gonna cost him his way of paying for his children to live. At least we DO AGREE hat it was WRONG for the teacher to put a teenage girl over his knee and strike her. |
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My point here is to point out how ridiculous the concept of spanking is. I hit you out of love. 
I cause you pain because I love you more than anything in the world. 
I am going to beat you until you learn the best things in life which are not suppose to include beatings by the way. 
What does that have to do with someone being a CEO of a big company? I ask again. |
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My point here is to point out how ridiculous the concept of spanking is. I hit you out of love.
I cause you pain because I love you more than anything in the world.
I am going to beat you until you learn the best things in life which are not suppose to include beatings by the way.
What does that have to do with someone being a CEO of a big company? |
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The same time that the government stops getting into wars... This arguement will never be won, I agree that the teacher had no right whatsoever to hit the girl, but at the same time, why should the authorities raise our children for us. The parents should have been called when the girl kicked him and they should have dealt with her. I hate that people spank their children but if it works for them so be it. It is not my place to tell someone how to raise their children. I can tell you that if my kid hits me, i am not calling the police to deal with it. It's hard enough nowadays to raise children without other people telling them how to do it. Personally I have never seen a time out work, the parent usually ends up sitting in time out with the child to make sure they take the time out, and then, the kid goes right back to doing what they were put in time out for. There needs to be a good discipline system that is acceptable by all people and that will never happen as all kids are different. I agree to some extent. There are children who have never been struck and are CEOs of big companies today. We only hear about the bad kids. I just have never found one healthy conclusion from spanking. When someone hits us it brings fear, granted fear is a control but not a healthy one. Hitting doesn't teach respect or a healthy problem solving or anything basically except that someone will hit when they feel like it. And I know people that are CEOs, executives, managers, principles and even superintendents that have been spanked. What's your point? |
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I get to show you how much power I have over you by hitting you when I feel like it and you can't do a thing about it except be told by me that I hit and love you. Why won't you answer my question? Why is it ok for a CHILD to ABUSE an ADULT? I did not see your question. It is never okay for anyone to abuse anyone. Violence is never the answer. I asked this question at least 3 times
In your world, what's the adult supposed to do while the child is ABUSING them? |
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I get to show you how much power I have over you by hitting you when I feel like it and you can't do a thing about it except be told by me that I hit and love you. Why won't you answer my question? Why is it ok for a CHILD to ABUSE an ADULT? |
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Striking someone is violence. Do it to an adult sometime and see what happens. Anyway I have to change my club name. Unknowingly Unhappy Spanked Children Anonymous First step is to let go of denial Second step is to hold all responsible parties responsible Third step is forgiveness of self and others Fourth step is to recover from possible PTSD Fifth step is to denounce all violence against those who cannot defend themselves. Hello, Now, I am a Known to me Unhappy Spanked Child in recovery. That's not answering my question. Why won't you answer my question? Why is it ok for a CHILD to ABUSE an ADULT? |
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Violence=love
consequences=reality
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Violence=love
What I'd like to know is this, why won't you answer my question? When did it become ok for a CHILD to ABUSE an ADULT? |
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