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Wed 08/01/12 04:44 PM

Anger can be both weapon AND shield, IMO. Letting it go and moving past is critical...you can't hang onto past chit or it will eat you up, even if you think you've managed it. Angry people usually can't get out of their own way to be happy.
I agree,you can hold on to things that happened in the past that made you angry and unhappy instead of looking to the future and to the happiness that CAN happen.happy

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Wed 08/01/12 04:15 PM
Edited by Scotti71 on Wed 08/01/12 04:38 PM



Yeh its not good to be bored.

It seems to be downhill from there.

I think people sometimes create drama and problems to over come boredom.
Yep,idle hands and all that


No its not idle hands "an all that.."

Its an idle heart, and an idle mind.
meow,that kitty got claws!!It was meant as a reference not as a direct quote.

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Tue 07/31/12 09:42 PM

I haven't shaved in 10 years, it is hard to get used to it again. I have a 3 day fuzz on right now.laugh
Your not a true man unless you have a beard!!

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Tue 07/31/12 09:31 PM
I have so many personalities,I never get lonelysurprised

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Tue 07/31/12 09:29 PM
Edited by Scotti71 on Tue 07/31/12 09:36 PM

Yeh its not good to be bored.

It seems to be downhill from there.

I think people sometimes create drama and problems to over come boredom.
Yep,idle hands and all that

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Tue 07/31/12 06:49 PM
Edited by Scotti71 on Tue 07/31/12 06:52 PM
Its good to vent your anger like a blow-off valve.If you keep it inside and let it build up-its gonna blow baby,probably over something really trivial that would not normally get to you,but this time it does.Its good to get angry over certain things because it shows you have an opinion and have feelings-the thing though is WHAT you get angry over.You could be angry over what happened in Colorado for example-you could also be angry that someone cut you off while driving.Its different for everybody as well as there being different levels of anger as well:spock sad2 rant mad devil

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Mon 07/30/12 09:37 PM

I used to be like that sometime back although not necessarily spending sleepless nights searching for a soulmate on the internet.

It's just that in my culture at my age I should be married with at least 5 kids. Almost all my friends are happily married and they always ask me when my turn will be. I'm a kind of person who's always busy at work to the extent that i fail to get time to interact with people, and i also still enjoy my single life. :)

There's been a lot of pressure from friends, family members, even church members for me to settle down. So many people would wonder why someone "so beautiful would still be single", never minded them though. Eventually when i opened up to dating & relationships, suprisingly guys that weren't my taste came my way, they didn't meet my expectations. So i devised another avenue to meet people & that was the internet. I wanted a dating site that had a component of Christianity in it 'coz I'm a staunch born again Christian and that's how i joined Mingle2.

I believe God is a match maker but we must also get involved in looking for our spouses.

As Christians, once we have decided that it is time to start looking for a spouse, we should begin the process with prayer. Committing ourselves to God’s will for our lives is the first step. Psalm 37:4 says, "Delight yourself in the LORD and he will give you the desires of your heart"

And we also have to trust in God with all our hearts for the right person. Proverbs 3:6 says "In all your ways acknowledge him,
and he will make straight your paths".

I also believe God's timing is perfect and with faith and patience we will receive His promises. Proverbs 6:12 says, "so that you may not be sluggish, but imitators of those who through faith and patience inherit the promises".

Welcome once again Alicia! flowerforyou



Your right.You can't just sit back and wait for God to find your partner.Just like you can't sit back and wait for anything to happen.You have to be out there amongst it all.As I have posted before,God knows whats in your heart and he won't match you with someone who isn't going to be right for you.It isn't much fun waiting,but it will be worth the wait in the endhappy

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Mon 07/30/12 08:06 PM
Haven't been told that for a long time,still,you have to give it to get it

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Mon 07/30/12 08:01 PM
Edited by Scotti71 on Mon 07/30/12 08:06 PM

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Sun 07/29/12 09:39 PM


nice and clean - i like that one

laugh

if she finished her speech then I'm sure all the guys felt they lived a long enough life
I thought when she started her speech,all the men would cover their ears

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Sun 07/29/12 09:35 PM

10 Things Men Know About Women



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10.) They have boobs.

I dont have a problem with that

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Sun 07/29/12 08:06 PM

beard.
I like that.A beard seems to be the answer to everything.All I ever seem to be able to grow is bum-fluffsad

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Sun 07/29/12 08:03 PM
Agreeing with everything they say because you know deep down there always rightwinking

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Sun 07/29/12 07:59 PM

I do not believe in the use of "average" as a driscriptive word.

Everything and everyone are Unique in some way!!


Right on.To me the term "average" only applies to numbers.We are all different individuals so this does not apply

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Sun 07/29/12 07:07 PM

Put on a pair of chaps and play cowboys and indians

play connect the dots with her freckles with chocolate syrup

Give her a good, old fashioned lap dance.

Dance in the rain to some good rock music


If none of those work, you could try the old fashioned way. A bottle of wine, rug on the floor in front of a fire with some pillows, and a mushy movie on tv or some slow music.


And if that doesn't work either, slap her azz, scream her name, and yell get me a beer!
and if that doesn't work slip something in her drink-no I didn't,no I did not just say thatlaugh

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Sun 07/29/12 06:53 PM
Edited by Scotti71 on Sun 07/29/12 07:08 PM

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Sun 07/29/12 06:51 PM

KINDA SIMPLE if ya can get a woman to laugh its a great start..
Could not agree more.Making anyone laugh is always a good start,people like being in you company if you can make them laugh

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Sun 07/29/12 06:42 PM

cheers love you
love that pic.My pic isn't my cat,buts shes far to you to smoke

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Sun 07/29/12 06:07 PM
Its real hard for someone like me to know what your going through when I have not been through anything like this myself.That being said though I do wish you all the best with your treatment and my heart goes out to you.I dont know you very well at all,but from what Ive read you seem to be a very friendly and kindhearted guy who never has a bad word to say about anyone.All the best-scotti.biggrin

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Sun 07/29/12 05:06 PM

And the 2 guys above obviously didn't read her profile haha.
Nice one,hahaha