So nice, so true... Thank you.

This is international site, you know
I'm from Europe, and i get responses from Asia, Africa, America ... So, i guess there's nothing wrong with your profile....

Mine is:

1.love for the truth no matter what;
2. the »resurrection power« in me to re-create myself after having been beaten, defeated (again) and to get up in a new, shinier, more powerful form;
3.seeing and clinging to that little ray of light when i am in or surrounded by the darkness, and showing/bringing the light to others when they are in the darkness (but only if they want to see it..;).

Saying that Bible or God says that sex is only for procreation and not also for enjoyment (though institutional Church might have said so in the past, i don't know)is just an excuse for those who don't really want to seek the truth of Bible or God, but put all things into the same basket, so that they can go on hating God and living according to their own rules....

I have no real experience or information about that, but just thinking logically: hitch-hiking would be the cheapest possibility, I guess, but probably also the most dangerous. Bus, boat are possibly cheaper but longer....I'm sorry, I can't be of more help....

And I really hope this is not some kind of scam. How long have you known this girl? You obviously haven't been on this site for a very long time.... Well, I wish you to take great care and ...good luck...

Exactly. There is a nice passage in Galatians about this:

God's Spirit and Our Own Desires

If you are guided by the Spirit, you won't obey your selfish desires. The Spirit and your desires are enemies of each other. They are always fighting each other and keeping you from doing what you feel you should. But if you obey the Spirit, the Law of Moses has no control over you.
People's desires make them give in to immoral ways, filthy thoughts, and shameful deeds. They worship idols, practice witchcraft, hate others, and are hard to get along with. People become jealous, angry, and selfish. They not only argue and cause trouble, but they are envious. They get drunk, carry on at wild parties, and do other evil things as well. I told you before, and I am telling you again: No one who does these things will share in the blessings of God's kingdom.
God's Spirit makes us loving, happy, peaceful, patient, kind, good, faithful, gentle, and self-controlled. There is no law against behaving in any of these ways. And because we belong to Christ Jesus, we have killed our selfish feelings and desires. God's Spirit has given us life, and so we should follow the Spirit. But don't be conceited or make others jealous by claiming to be better than they are. (Galatians 5:16-26)

A very good advice. But you have to be an illusion-free person for that.
I used to have a tendency to make strong (and long-lasting)illusions -- didn't want to see or hear what i actually saw and heard...and the stronger/longer the illusion the more painful and devestating is the breaking of illusion. However, at the end of all ends you are happy that the illusion has been broken and your view is clearer and more realistic....

A very good question?

And I am suprised that there actually are a few men who know that their body is "God's temple" and save it for their wife...

Wow, I like this. It defines me, too.

And this is my favourite:


Everything Has Its Time

Everything on earth
has its own time
and its own season.
There is a time
for birth and death,
planting and reaping,
for killing and healing,
destroying and building,
for crying and laughing,
weeping and dancing,
for throwing stones
and gathering stones,
embracing and parting.
There is a time
for finding and losing,
keeping and giving,
for tearing and sewing,
listening and speaking.
There is also a time
for love and hate,
for war and peace.

(Ecclesiates:3,1-8)

Two cucumbers...just needed them before i go to bed now...

But I am NICE, well, I can be sometimes Does that qualify me as normal, too?

I'm a woman and I can't stop laughing at this. Am I normal?

This is really a good praise to use in "the storm"..;) Thank you.

We are often so overwhelmed by pain, loss, depression in certain situations that we forget to lift our eyes and praise the Lord. We forget that

"The Lord is there to rescue
all who are discouraged
and have given up hope.

The Lord's people
may suffer a lot,
but he will always
bring them safely through. (Psalm 34:18-19)

When you are in the "deepest pit" of your life, start reading Psalms! It really helps....

I think this is the most probable answer

But I'll join in your why-ning: why is almost all interest i get from men around 20 (schoolboys) or from men around 60 (daddies)?

A serious question follows: Is this site cursed

I would have nothing against a single dad at all...If he is the right man for me and i am the right woman for him (and this is the precondition) I would welcome his children as long as he and they can really make space for me, i.e. accept me as an equal member of the familiy....
Not as a rule, but I often find single dads more interesting than single men with no obligations -- probably because I think it's more likely they have more sense of responsibility (though i may be wrong?)...+ I like children...

So true... Thank you.

Thank you. You choose your topics so well!

Thank you for reminding me. I often forget this.

I just have to tell you this, because it happened yesterday. I was sitting on my bed with my legs crossed writing something, then wanted to get up and don't know what exactly happened, but somehow I had a very bad fall bacwards from the bad. My cat was napping on the bed, but when I fell down and was lying on the floor for a couple of minutes (from the shock and pain), my cat woke up and came to the edge of bed looking down at me for some time as if saying "Are you OK?" It was such a sight that it made me laugh. Was it just cat's curiosity or worry?

Definitely cats. Because of their independence, cleanliness, elegance, wildness and character.
I love dogs, too, but they are different...

Dogs want to be loved, taken care of, dependent, trained (told what to do), played with ...
Cats want to be loved, taken care of, independent, respected ...

A few of my favorite quotations about cats:

"Cleanlines in the cat world is usually a virtue put above godliness" (Carl Van Vechten)

"I love cats because I love my home and after a while they become its visible soul." (Jean Cocteau)

"The cat has too much spirit to have no heart" (Ernest menault)

"Two things are aestetically perfect in the world--the clock and the cat."(Emile-August Chartier)

"Perhaps it is because cats do not live by human patterns, do not fit themselves into prescribed behaviour, that they are so united to creative people." (Andre Norton)