Start dating boys then...

I'm like geez- don't you have any freaking freinds you can torment, torture, abuse, and dump this crap on? Why me? What the f*ck did I ever do to you? Look at me closely- closely- closely- do I look like I give a sh!t? Ha ha ha ha!!! Good luck dating lying men!

HMM I have read this whole entire thread and it is not ALL men or ALL women!! I do think that sometimes we pick the wrong people to date and we fall into a pattern. Obviously I think that is what you have have done BZMOM01. BUT until you realize that you do pick the same type of men, then nothing will change.
I suggest that you read a book called "In the Meantime" by Iyanla Vanzant, it explains how you can fall into patterns of dating the same type of people and then it tells you how to get out of that pattern.
Until we take blame in past relationships, we can't grow. Not every relationship is perfect BUT it seems like you need to find you someone that is totally different from the past.
Good Luck

It's quite simple, really. We respond because you need to be set straight. YOU were the one who created the thread and asked the question. We answered them. You're not always going to like all the answers you get, especially if they're brutally honest.

As for "saying something wrong when I'm mad", that's a non-issue as well. I pride myself on choosing my words carefully, and I certainly wouldn't bring a private matter into a public forum for the whole world to see, especially when the only side to be seen would be my own. There is not enough information to make an unbiased opinion.

Like I said, this ain't our first rodeo. We've seen thousands of threads exactly like this one. One person wrongs another, and suddenly that entire gender turns into horses asses....all because of one bad experience.

Wrong. You did not "forget" a word. You had absolutely no intention of putting it in the original post, and your attention was only drawn to it after it was called out. Now, you're backpedaling, trying to save face. It ain't workin'. Do you honestly think this is the first time we've seen a thread like this?

What these boys did was wrong, I admit that, but why do you continue to be with these types, something in you is attracted to them and is attracting them to you.

Then YOU need to make better decisions about who YOU choose to have a relationship with, AND YOU have to figure out the reason these men did what they allegedly did.

There's always three sides to every story: Yours, theirs, and the truth.

Mitch is right. Instead of directing this at "men" in general, would it make too much sense to direct it at the four bad realtionships you've had?

Remember, if your relationships consistently seem to go south, the only common denominator is you.

So let me get this straight. you've made bad choices create a gender bashing thread because of your issues then backtrack? Do I have this correct? Okay then, what now? Do I get insulted or reported because I called you on this?

Come on, this isn't gender bashing, just a question and let's not crucify her just because she didn't 'most' or 'some' men. I think MOST of us can figure she doesn't mean every single man on the planet.

The windup... She pitches, ball 1.

I lie to women because it makes me feel superior and horny.

And you know this because you've interviewed all 6 billion men and women on the planet? Or perhaps you've based it on your own experiences?

Like I said, I love gender bashing. I never did till I got to this site, but I now find it a great source of entertainment. Lemme go get some popcorn.