If she wrote that in her myspace page 4 days ago you already know you have been dumped so why are you even asking this question? I think it is interesting that her reason for dumping you is all the "jealousy crap". Maybe you should learn a lesson from that and try to figure out where all the insecurity is coming from that causes you to be so jealous.

Is this a dating site? Hmmmmm Some people regard it as a singles community. You need to get consistent, Bro! On one hand you say you have no bf/gf titles but on the other hand you are already acting possessive. Maybe you need to get off the fence with this gal if you both feel so strong towards each other because until you do, you have no right at all to ask her to remove herself from what you call a dating site. Personally I have quite a few friends on several sites like this and if someone asked me to T-Totally be off of them I would balk at the idea. Where there is no trust there can be no love

It might depend on what they ate

Hey, they could write a book "6000 Steps to a Romantic Relationship"

That is almost as complicated as romancing an American Woman!!!

Shadows dancing on my heart
silhouettes of times gone by
captured by the candle's flame
and makes me wonder why?

Why do I find myself alone
with longings for that touch
of one who lives in worthiness
and loves me just as much

Your whispers softly beacon
and draw my face so near
and with you close beside me
I whisper in your ear

"Awaken from your dreams of love,
and gaze into my eyes
blue as every ocean deep
or bright and sunny skies...

Embrace me with your arms of love
with songs of hope and laughter
and promise me tomorrow
and 'happy ever after'"

Touch me with your kisses sweet
Love me with your eyes so deep
We shall find our joy complete
then fall into a peaceful sleep

Perchance lovers in the night
perhaps soulmates, me and you
Maybe just the best of friends
which choice could be true?

Nothing ventured, nothing gained
but distance is our foe
but daring not our love refrain
Though somewhat fearful I would go

I think your screen name is so strongly suggestive nobody would even think to ask.

Why do you suppose the Bible says, "The fool has said in his heart 'There is no God'"

Perhaps it is because the evidence of a creator is spoken by every leaf and flower. Even Darwin admitted fear of God in his reference to the mathematical intricacy of the human eye. Believe what you will but all the disbelief in God you can muster will not make His laws change or make Him disappear. There will be a day when every knee will bow.

Actually being from another planet this is a tough one for me. Actually I think that us aliens got a bad rap on that eating idea. Sex on every planet is intended for procreation so only the female of the species would do the eatiing if it was even commonly done. You have probably heard of ear orgasms before but under their more common name "mind blowing sex"

I think the worst damage comes from childhood abuse so that victim is prone to become involved in a codependent relationship which simply perpetuates the damage and abuse. Having recently dated a girl like this for two years, I could see a lot of changes in her self esteem. She could too. Her problem with alcoholism drew her away and back into the arms of the last husband again which she now strongly regrets. She says in two days she will leave him and return to her parents home for a time of rebuilding. I do not think that would have happened if I had not met her. She claims she would be dead by now if we had never met. Should I regret the pain I endured in the relationship or should I be thankful I could be some help to someone I have deep feelings about? I choose the latter so my answer to this question is to suggest if you have the strength to endure, the self discipline to be faithful and true, the wisdom to be good counsel and have no expectation of return then you should go for it. "Love seeketh not its own!"

Click the "My Account" Tab at the top of the page and then click on "profile" You will see your own profile unless you are a figment of your own imagination (and ours)

Is there a place for meeting announcements here? I put together a dinner meeting at the Whole Hog Cafe July 26 and if you want details just write to me

"American Beauty" is the name of a carousel horse carved by MC Illions in 1909. I gold leafed and painted a hand carved reproduction of it 14 years ago of it

About the movie... there are rules... what you do is what you are, regardless your motives!

Shadows dancing on my heart
silhouettes of times gone by
captured by the candle's flame
and makes me wonder why?

Why do I find myself alone
with longings for that touch
of one who lives in worthiness
and loves me just as much

Your whispers softly beacon
and draw my face so near
and with you close beside me
I whisper in your ear

"Awaken from your dreams of love,
and gaze into my eyes
blue as every ocean deep
or bright and sunny skies...

Embrace me with your arms of love
with songs of hope and laughter
and promise me tomorrow
and 'happy ever after'"

steven

It is hard for me to understand the audacity of women who believe they know what I am thinking when my eyes are drawn towards another woman. One EX GF was pissed after we got home from the dance because I had stared at the girl in the red dress throughout the evening. I had no idea who she was talking about. I could only remember staring at one couple who danced so beautifully through the night.. I stare at cool cars and I don't want to have sex with them. I stare at the beauty of a tall stately tree or the reflections of the water of a lake. SO What? If I happen to take a second glance at a scantily clad girl what am I thinking? Nobody knows but me but I can assure you that it is not what anyone else is thinking and it seldom is in conflict or is any way competitive to any relationship I might be in. When a gal gets mad about this it is more often a problem with HER INSECURITY than with his lust.

I saw the woven words as fragments of a rich tapestry. Beginnings of a work far from finished and only slightly begun.

It seems only a non-thinker could answer "yes"

Then again there are those who are "feelers" and have no need to think

Losing a fantasy is no loss at all

Wish it was that easy to get a good one lol

To state your love is a expression of your feelings towards another person. If the words are not returned to you, does it negate the original statement? If you are saying "I love you" with the hope or expectation of hearing it back perhaps you are expressing your need for love more than you are actually saying "I love you"

"Love seeketh not its own"