Topic: How do I show up in a search?
chrisvnh's photo
Sat 07/12/08 04:51 AM
hello all...i am new to this site. i posted a profile and pics. just to check out how i show up to others and i did a search of woman seeking men, age 44 - 48 and withing 15 miles of zip code 03431

i hit the search button and didnt show up in the results. any ideas? could it be because it doesnt show you yourself? or.....do i have to enable something else?

maybe someone could do the search for me and let me know if i am in the results?

i am a male looking for a female, 46 yrs. old and live in zip code 03431

thanks in advance - chriS

moonlight_ride62's photo
Sat 07/12/08 04:57 AM
maybe you need to broaden the search...15 miles is not a lot of searching area

chrisvnh's photo
Sat 07/12/08 05:03 AM
hi...i just tried that and widened the search area to within 25 miles of my zip code and my profile still doesnt show up in the results.

crafty_poet's photo
Sat 07/12/08 05:12 AM
Edited by crafty_poet on Sat 07/12/08 05:14 AM
Click the "My Account" Tab at the top of the page and then click on "profile" You will see your own profile unless you are a figment of your own imagination (and ours)

deltasissy's photo
Sat 07/12/08 05:15 AM
are you searching for women? lol

sum14u2c's photo
Sat 07/12/08 05:17 AM
you will not show up in your own search. hopefully you've already found yourself bigsmile but others will see you drinker and welcome to jsh/mingle2

chrisvnh's photo
Sat 07/12/08 05:34 AM
thank you all.

and YES Deltasissy...i most certainly AM looking for women.....LOL

i was just wondering if i showed up in other folks search because you can do that on yahoo and plentyoffish. sorta like being able to check up on the competition ;)

thanks again.....hopefully i'll show up in a few gals searches

boneyjoe's photo
Sat 07/12/08 05:40 AM
plenty of fish,,,,,,sucks,,,,,,,the people over ther will never make it,,,i'm still a member an most people on there are very rude,,,,,,you want to meet nice people,,still around an join in th forums,,,,,,,,might not find a woman 3 streets over,,,,but u can try

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sat 07/12/08 06:27 AM

thank you all.

and YES Deltasissy...i most certainly AM looking for women.....LOL

i was just wondering if i showed up in other folks search because you can do that on yahoo and plentyoffish. sorta like being able to check up on the competition ;)

thanks again.....hopefully i'll show up in a few gals searches


LMAO...what competition???laugh laugh
This is a virtual playground...nothing happens here but fun and games...if your looking for a date I'd suggest E-Harmony:tongue:
Welcome to JSH/Mingle and good luckdrinker drinker drinker

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 07/12/08 07:04 AM
Redwine spock .. did I just hear you swear on here? :laughing:

eHarmony? OMG .. that is like a friggin nightmare. scared scared scared Theeee most controlling dating site on the web.pitchfork

They tell you WHO you can talk to and you are not allowed to chat with anyone other than their picks.noway noway noway

Most people on here know I date younger. They had me matched with guys up to 20 years OLDER and would not let me move my own age criteria down to younger guys. I don't even date guys my own age or close to my age, and never older.

They also matched me to like 40 guys in 2 mos. Ya. Right. Most were country-minded. I'm a city girl all the way.

Biggest waste of time I've ever spent. Even with the free month they gave me for my complaints.

But worst yet .. is that you can't talk to who you want to talk to. Only their choices.

NO THANKS. This is America. Land of the free :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Serchin4MyRedWine's photo
Sat 07/12/08 07:15 AM

Redwine spock .. did I just hear you swear on here? :laughing:

eHarmony? OMG .. that is like a friggin nightmare. scared scared scared Theeee most controlling dating site on the web.pitchfork

They tell you WHO you can talk to and you are not allowed to chat with anyone other than their picks.noway noway noway

Most people on here know I date younger. They had me matched with guys up to 20 years OLDER and would not let me move my own age criteria down to younger guys. I don't even date guys my own age or close to my age, and never older.

They also matched me to like 40 guys in 2 mos. Ya. Right. Most were country-minded. I'm a city girl all the way.

Biggest waste of time I've ever spent. Even with the free month they gave me for my complaints.

But worst yet .. is that you can't talk to who you want to talk to. Only their choices.

NO THANKS. This is America. Land of the free :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana: :banana:

Fadeflowerforyou I was just kidding...never been to E-Harmony (or any other "dating" site for that matter) and was just "chiding" him about the competition....maybe he will have better luck here then most of uslaugh

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 07/12/08 07:37 AM
Oh I figured you were .. I just like to rip on eHell pitchfork .. I mean eHarmony when I can .. :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing: :laughing:

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Sat 07/12/08 07:43 AM
I like the eharmony reject commercials!laugh

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 07/12/08 08:00 AM

I like the eharmony reject commercials!laugh



lol

I've never seen them cuz I hardly ever watch TV but they are the biggest REJECT online site ever.

I HATE control freaks and they have the prize for it. eeeeeeeeeeeeeeeewwwwwwwww

devil

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Sat 07/12/08 08:29 AM
Hi Chris...welcome to JSH/mingle2. To answer your original question...click on your My Account tab...then below your pic, click on view profile...now click on you town's name...PRESTO!!!

Good luck in your search...and F.Y.I., some on here do get past the dating stage.biggrin

Fade2Black's photo
Sat 07/12/08 08:33 AM

Hi Chris...welcome to JSH/mingle2. To answer your original question...click on your My Account tab...then below your pic, click on view profile...now click on you town's name...PRESTO!!!

Good luck in your search...and F.Y.I., some on here do get past the dating stage.biggrin



^^ another shining example of JSH/Mingle magic love

TwilightsTwin's photo
Sat 07/12/08 11:22 AM
Welcome to the site!flowerforyou