James,
It's not so bad being single! You will meet someone eventually when the timing is right. I also am single but I try to involve myself with friends, work, hobbies, etc. Join some interest clubs and put yourself in positions that you will constantly be meeting new people. I certainly don't want to list any cliches about your situation but perhaps if you started relishing the fact that you are single you might appear more appealing. Again visit with your friends and stay busy. That's the key.
Sarah