why is it that most big people like me never get a girl? i have a nice personalty and all round personalty but my birthday is the 15th and i am gonna be alone again it seems like i am gonna be single for ever.

never give up ,why ? god loves you and therefore when he feels time is right he will put a very special person in your life just for you just pray and be patient

you will find her when the time is right

I personally have a hugely hard time being with anyone whose not big...so i guess it depends on the girl.

James,
It's not so bad being single! You will meet someone eventually when the timing is right. I also am single but I try to involve myself with friends, work, hobbies, etc. Join some interest clubs and put yourself in positions that you will constantly be meeting new people. I certainly don't want to list any cliches about your situation but perhaps if you started relishing the fact that you are single you might appear more appealing. Again visit with your friends and stay busy. That's the key.
Sarah

James, you'll find someone, it's all a matter of timing.

Happy Birthday, though, mines the 17th,

As said earlier , God is working on her , Continue to pray and you will find that one that will blow your socks off. BTW I will pray for your mate personally. Keep your head up and don't be down on yourself.

My answer..and I will probably get hammered for this..is first impressions count. Perhaps you could not put a picture on,get to know a person. Find out if they have a problem with a person of your size,if they do,you know before you go down the road further.Another great thing is,at least you are talking to someone.Find something in common..pets, music, hobbies,and stick to that subject till you get a feel for the person you are writting.If you are both crazy about the same thing,then that is a huge hurdle over the size or looks.Stick to being friends until you meet and find out if there is more.Keep it safe for the other person,so they don't think they have to constantly worry about your feelings.
Oh and btw I was engaged to a 6 foot 3 size 4x man for 18 months.Saddly a heart attack took him from me.. I really miss him. Take care.

I know what you men, I hate being stuck to being just freinds with girls. I think being freinds with girls is kind of annoying after a while. I just want to date a white girl lol.

I gotta say it's just as hard for the girls who are heavy set. Trust me most people look at my pic and take off running. But I know that not everyone out there is totally geared on looks. Keep your chin up and just be the best you can be. Good luck hon :)
Jenn

it doesnt matter what you look like or if you are big or small or if you have a pic or not ..there is someone for everyone ive been turned down by a 5'5 woman for being 5'6 she said she doesnt date short men so i told her i didn't date short women just to give her a taste too many people are concerned with the outside of a package rather than the content so to all those people they should get neatly wrapped christmas presents with nothing inside ive even taken grief over not having a pic as opposed to all the fake ones that might be posted so you see for me it doesnt bother me because all the ignorant ones weed themself out ..just be who you are be comfortable in who you are and stay happy ..ive been turned down by younger women because they say they dont date older men so i tell them neither do i and see we do have something in common ..dont worry what other people think ....i dont

If someone doesn't like you for your size, why bother with them anyways? I mean, you wouldn't want to be with someone that wasn't into to begin with.

I myself have had a strange dating life. I was very thin for a while, got heavier, lost a bunch of weight, and then gained some back. It's weird to see how I got SO MUCH ATTENTION when I was 30lbs lighter, but the heavier I got, less and less men wanted to even talk to me. It's fine though. Wouldn't wan them anyhow. THere is someone for everyone. Don't give up. In the mean time, don't forget about living for YOURSELF instead of living to find someone ELSE!! Good Luck.

hang in there bud.it will happen.the best comes to those who wait! god bless.

hey buddy,happy early b-day!!! i hear you all to well.and as you see,you're not alone.i feel i'll never meet that right person too lol.take care.