Jen,

When you have a moment, you have mail...

Kathy

parents = psychotherapy bills

mind = free will

current - Fort Explorer, black
current - Chevy Hi-top conversion van (for the dog shows)
Favourite- 1956 Thunderbird, Robin's Egg Blue & white
Would like to have- Would love to have the T-Bird back, of course...

Anyone IN or NEAR Fayetteville/Ft. Bragg, NC?

1/4 pounder = "Would you like fries with that?"

Dude, for the record...

"That costs extra..."

ROFLMFAO!!!

Some of us are in positions where we work out of our homes. I have 3
jobs: I work for a temp agency to get medical insurance, I'm a
free-lance word processor from my home, and I show dogs many weekends
out of the year.

And your point is...?

I lived through the exact same situation, but we were only together 12
years. "Only" 12 years...but it was a happy 12 years for me.

I agonized over how to put the marriage back together ~ until I realized
that it was HE who destroyed it. You can't fix a marriage that someone
else broke...they have to do it.

Then I realized something else...he side-stepped our vows; he brought
another woman into our union; he violated the trust we had built
together. I wondered if he'd cheat again if I let him come home, and
wondered if I could ever come to trust him again. I embraced the fact
that I had been loyal, faithful and true ~ and that I deserved far
better than sharing a home with someone who took me for granted. I went
through with the divorce.

He remarried a few years after our divorce and they had one child, a boy
who is high-functioning autistic. My heart broke for all of them.

I heard that their divorce was finalized a few months ago after 8 years
together. The reason? He cheated...again.

I believe that because his conscience bothered him, he offered me the
home furnishings (we never bought a home), my show dogs, my Harley, my
truck, alimony and half our savings, and he assummed the bills we'd
accumulated. When I became self-supporting again, I refused to continue
to accept alimony from him.

It was the best deal I ever made...

It takes time, but it DOES get better ~ I promise you it does! Good
luck, and keep your head up. Living well is sometimes the best
revenge...LOL!

Morning, Everyone!

A toast:

"Party like a rock star,
F*ck 'em like a porn star, and
Ride 'em like ya stole 'em".

I'm not superstitous in this vein, but many others are. Be aware of
that, and watch out for other drivers because they won't be watching the
road today...they'll be checking for a full moon...

sheesh!

Hey, Sport, it's all good. I didn't give up my local dating life just
in case Paul and I didn't click. A gal has to keep her options open,
don't you agree?

NEXT! LOL!

Step up and shout out...

I'm in Fayeville, too...

In case you missed the POINT...Tired is trying to do something good and
kind-hearted for a friend of his ~ the friend who lost their friend.

If you can't say something supportive and kind, then please...stop
picking Tired's scabs just to watch him bleed!

Have you ever seen or heard of an animal that is hurt, who, when you try
to help, lashes out and bites anything that comes close to the thing
that hurts? That's what's going on here...
and you all are acting like the bad little kids who are pouring salt in
an open wound.

JUST STOP IT!!!!

Hon,

You can't demand that someone respect someone else. It's obvious that
you are hurt, but calling people names and assassinating their character
isn't the way to go about things.

Please consider an apology to those you bitched out.

confident = attractive

Tired,

That is completely uncalled for. You're striking out at us in anger.
Please, take your inventory, Hon.

Kat

walk = strut

Arizona = desert nights