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Mon 12/22/08 07:39 PM

No offence. I do not view drinking as a disease. When a bill doesn't get paid...that is a choice. When a voice or a hand is raised in anger...that is a choice. When a loved one or a friend is neglected...that is a choice.

When someone does these things and blames another element of thier life...that is lack of self-control and a weak @ssed cop-out.

Our American culture (which I am a big fan of)..encourages us to have excuses for failures in our lives so as to not actually hold one's self personally accountable for the things we fail to do.

Alcoholism is as much a disease as lazyness (depression), having a wild child (media calls it A.D.D....I call it a lack of discipline) or Rage Syndrome (flat out just being a d!ck)

Plenty of you won't agree with me..and that is fine...Viva le Differe'nce..

I will just continue to try to be a good soul...that is the best I can do.

I will say this. I would rather date a drinker than a "Recovering Alcoholic"...a drinker is just being themselves...a "Recovering Alcoholic" already has an excuse for doing you wrong.


<-------Takes full responsibility for all his actions and makes no excuses.

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Mon 12/22/08 07:29 PM
Happy Birthday!!! flowers

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Mon 12/22/08 07:12 PM
music, hiking, meditation, exercise.

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Mon 12/22/08 07:06 PM
friends
family
sobriety
life
my health

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Mon 12/22/08 11:38 AM
single ohwell

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Sun 12/21/08 10:04 PM
If my family is drinking things usually get interesting. I'm wondering if the cops will show up again this year for christmas. laugh

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Sun 12/21/08 09:30 PM
only a couple...wish things had turned out differently.

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Sun 12/21/08 07:23 PM
flowerforyou

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Sun 12/21/08 07:08 PM
hello and welcome

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Sun 12/21/08 07:03 PM
18 here in vermont wind chill 13. got another foot of snow today.

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Sun 12/21/08 07:00 PM
two weeks. We were talking on the phone everyday before we met. Distance became a problem and the relationship ended a few week later.

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Sun 12/21/08 06:18 PM
It would take a long long time and it probably would never reach the level that it was at before being cheated on.

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Sun 12/21/08 06:15 PM
I'd probably have a hard time with that situation.

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Sun 12/21/08 05:09 PM
It's real...I've felt it

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Sun 12/21/08 01:40 PM

Never alone...

Still Single




your right

Not alone...still single bigsmile :banana:

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Sun 12/21/08 12:11 PM



How would you recover from a break up? how easy it is?


going through it now. exercise helps and spending time with friends.

yes it does..get over it soon dude..coz next one is waiting:banana:


I tend to move on quickly. No sense in sitting on a pitty pot being depressed. bigsmile :banana:

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Sun 12/21/08 12:08 PM
forgot to post my name when I first posted

<------Tom

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Sun 12/21/08 12:05 PM

How would you recover from a break up? how easy it is?


going through it now. exercise helps and spending time with friends.

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Sun 12/21/08 07:00 AM
just when I thought I was going to have companionship for christmas...

still alone, still single :cry:

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Sun 12/21/08 02:52 AM
whether I seek it out or not responsibility finds me.

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