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No offence. I do not view drinking as a disease. When a bill doesn't get paid...that is a choice. When a voice or a hand is raised in anger...that is a choice. When a loved one or a friend is neglected...that is a choice. When someone does these things and blames another element of thier life...that is lack of self-control and a weak @ssed cop-out. Our American culture (which I am a big fan of)..encourages us to have excuses for failures in our lives so as to not actually hold one's self personally accountable for the things we fail to do. Alcoholism is as much a disease as lazyness (depression), having a wild child (media calls it A.D.D....I call it a lack of discipline) or Rage Syndrome (flat out just being a d!ck) Plenty of you won't agree with me..and that is fine...Viva le Differe'nce.. I will just continue to try to be a good soul...that is the best I can do. I will say this. I would rather date a drinker than a "Recovering Alcoholic"...a drinker is just being themselves...a "Recovering Alcoholic" already has an excuse for doing you wrong. <-------Takes full responsibility for all his actions and makes no excuses. |
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TODAY IS.....
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Happy Birthday!!!
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Your TLC?
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music, hiking, meditation, exercise.
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I AM GRATEFUL FOR:
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friends
family sobriety life my health |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 10
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single
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family drama
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If my family is drinking things usually get interesting. I'm wondering if the cops will show up again this year for christmas.
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only a couple...wish things had turned out differently.
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Nine Years Ago Yesterday
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hello and welcome
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18 here in vermont wind chill 13. got another foot of snow today.
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lets go out-- now
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two weeks. We were talking on the phone everyday before we met. Distance became a problem and the relationship ended a few week later.
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It would take a long long time and it probably would never reach the level that it was at before being cheated on.
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To the boys here
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I'd probably have a hard time with that situation.
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It's real...I've felt it
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 10
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Never alone... Still Single your right Not alone...still single |
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How would you recover from a break up? how easy it is? going through it now. exercise helps and spending time with friends. yes it does..get over it soon dude..coz next one is waiting I tend to move on quickly. No sense in sitting on a pitty pot being depressed. |
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forgot to post my name when I first posted
<------Tom |
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How would you recover from a break up? how easy it is? going through it now. exercise helps and spending time with friends. |
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SINGLE or TAKEN? - part 10
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just when I thought I was going to have companionship for christmas...
still alone, still single |
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whether I seek it out or not responsibility finds me.
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