WELL TO ANSWER YA QUESTION YES U MUST TEL THEM TO GET IT OUT THE WAY. BUT ON THE OTHER HAND WHEN U EXPLAIN IT TO HER OR HIM YOU MUST ALSO LET THEM KNOW THAT U ARE NOT TRYING TO JEOPARDIZE THE RELATIONSHIP BUT THIS IS HOW U FEEL AND U WANTED THE PERSON TO KNOW THE TRUTH ABOUT IT. BUT IN MY CASE I AM ONE TO SAY YES I CAN STEAL ANOTHER PERSONS LOVE BECAUSE I HAVE DONE IT BEFORE AND IT WASN'T INTENTIONALLY IT WAS JUST THAT I HAD SOMETHING MORE TO OFFER THEN THE DUDE SHE WAS CURRENTLY WITH.

PEOPLE ALSO HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THAT WHEN U LET IT BE KNOWN HOW U FEEL. THINGS BECOME BETTER FOR YOURSELF BUT ON THE OTHER HAND THE PERSON UR TELLING THE FEELINGS TO IS THE ONE THATS GOING TO WORRY AND STRESS BUT U TELL THEM U ARE NOT GIVING THEM AN ULTIMATUM BUT U WANT THEM TO KNOW HOW U FEEL ABOUT THEM....AND COME TO YOUR SURPRISE HE OR SHE FEELS THE SAME WAY AND DIDN'T KNOW HOW TO TELL U...THAT EVER HAPPEN TO YOU?