Okay so I am wondering how long after a break up should you wait before dating again. I know there are many schools of thought but just wondering what people think. Does it matter how long the relationship you were in was? For example I've heard the longer the relationship the longer you should wait before getting involved with someone new. What about baggage? Does someone who's recently ended a relationship really have more baggage than someone who's been single for a while? What do people think?

Thanks all... so far so good. Interesting people here. I'll remmember to "bob and weave"... good advice!

I recently moved and a neigbour gave me a big smile and a hello...it's a little thing but it made me smile!

Hello all:

I'm new here and looking for some advice. These forums look interesting and fun. How do I avoid the creepos?? Anyone have any luck finding someone on here? Anyone have any interesting stories to share. Looking forward to hearing from people.