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Tue 01/31/12 05:33 PM
Topic: Where are the guys over 40?
i just happen to be 44
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Tue 01/31/12 05:31 PM
Topic: Where are the good black men?
you may be in the wrong city, ....or maybe i am
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Tue 01/31/12 05:24 PM
Topic: Ok so who is out here in Cali bay area between 30 and 40?
30 to 40, ....sorry im 44
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Tue 01/31/12 05:18 PM
Topic: black men
first, whats your definition of a good black man?
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Tue 01/31/12 05:15 PM
Topic: Single black men
we are here, its just after a 30 min. conversation we know if its good to stay or run like the wind!
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Tue 01/31/12 05:04 PM
Topic: Y is it so difficult to get decent honest guys ovet 40?
most of us are set in our ways and have seen the darkside, and just after a starbucks and a 30 min conversation we know if we can deal with you and your crazy or not
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Tue 01/31/12 04:56 PM
Topic: Guys I have a question
there's an old saying i use, " a close mouth dont get fed", so if you dont speak i dont hear you!, who cares whos first as long as they aknowlwdge you exist and they know you are there.
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Tue 01/31/12 04:47 PM
Topic: men can ya please answer my question
i would say analyze yourself, it may not be him it could have been you, ask yourself some honest questions, why did you like him? , was it too early?. how much time before the sex, if we as people check ourselves sometimes we find we just dont want to be alone, and no matter what we stick to situations we know are not good for us. the bottom line is choice, you chose the situation no one handcuffs you to anyone. if you choose bad learn from it and dont do it again.
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Sun 12/30/07 06:20 PM
Topic: Hi!
new to the scene!
and just wanted to say hi!. and see who's out here,
so let's chat and see what's up.