I take it that the correct tittle for which my topic fits, is "Community"?

Thank you for taking the time to contact me...

good point! thank you for the nice reply..

It has been nearly 1 and a half years since i have been laid! There are many reasons why, but the jist of the matter is that I have full custody of my three teens... I no longer go out and mingle in the areas that I used to meet ladies with needs such as mine, this is due to the fact that I am very aware of my role model position.

Were the truth to be known, I would prefer a long term committed relationship ( although I am not against the idea of a sex buddy), but in my world there are extremely few eligible gals. The last thing that I want to do is step out with somone that is married.

If you have any suggestions or ideas please let me know..