It has been nearly 1 and a half years since i have been laid! There are many reasons why, but the jist of the matter is that I have full custody of my three teens... I no longer go out and mingle in the areas that I used to meet ladies with needs such as mine, this is due to the fact that I am very aware of my role model position.

Were the truth to be known, I would prefer a long term committed relationship ( although I am not against the idea of a sex buddy), but in my world there are extremely few eligible gals. The last thing that I want to do is step out with somone that is married.

If you have any suggestions or ideas please let me know..

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the term 'getting laid' sounds so immature and depersonalized in my opinion.

maybe that's why you haven't gotten any in so long?

good point! thank you for the nice reply..

I take it that the correct tittle for which my topic fits, is "Community"?

Thank you for taking the time to contact me...

i agree and also havin a sex buddy? everyone has theyre own thing, but i'm not into a "sex buddy"..like u i want a true, sincere relationship where sex is of course involved..thats what sex is for..to me anyways..

i noticed that no one has made a coment about your kids at home,,,ok so your a single dad,,some women look at that like you want have th room an time for there kids,,,,,,i can relate to having kids at home caus i still got one thats 17 but he's not home much sence football is over for highschool,,,,,,but i noticed that he really isn't into me bring women home,,,,,so i can't be a pro on this subject,,,,but don't bring just any lady home,,,thake th kids to day care or have a friend watch them until you feel comfortable with her befor you introduce her to your kids,,,some women are like swing doors,,take your time,,,i know you have needs,,,but th kids come frist

try not using the term "getting laid" except around the guys.

of course

Good advice

Try www.meetup.com or local volunteer groups for singles.