My husband and I broke up over an affair that he had 17 yrs. ago. Did I mention it was with his 1st cousin. No I am not kidding. When he was a teenager he hooked up with a girl and they started to date. It wasn't until later that they found out they were 1st BLOOD cousins. They continued to sleep together and parted ways after she conceived a daughter. The story goes he knew about the kid, but didn't want to pay child support; plus they didn't want her father to know. Now after being with my husband for almost 10 yrs. the mother (cousin) shows up with a 16 yr. old saying, "This is your daughter." I took that well, as well as could be expected, until he started spending all his waking minutes thinking about her and wanting to talk to her. There was no reason for him to leave his wife in our bedroom while he talked to his new teenager until 3 or 4 am.
in a nut shell we had a arguement about things and the next day he decides to end our relationship. Also did I mention I have helped in the raising of his other 2 kids, plus have a 4 yr. old of our own. Now he spends all his time with his new daughter, plus her mother (that he is more than likely still in love with) and her other two kids in my house. I was kicked to the curb so he could start a new family. How crappy is that???
The crazier part about things is that he isn't going to give me any support, as if I am the one who wanted to break this off. When we got married 5 yrs. ago it was for better or worse, I guess they didn't think about putting incest behavior or babies' mama in the vows. It got bad for him and he wanted out. It is his lose. What would u do in a situation like this?? Stay because u love him so much and u think u can over look the fact that our lives will never be the same, or give up on our marriage, start again??? What do u think???

My husband and I broke up over an affair that he had 17 yrs. ago. Did I mention it was with his 1st cousin. No I am not kidding. When he was a teenager he hooked up with a girl and they started to date. It wasn't until later that they found out they were 1st BLOOD cousins. They continued to sleep together and parted ways after she conceived a daughter. The story goes he knew about the kid, but didn't want to pay child support; plus they didn't want her father to know. Now after being with my husband for almost 10 yrs. the mother (cousin) shows up with a 16 yr. old saying, "This is your daughter." I took that well, as well as could be expected, until he started spending all his waking minutes thinking about her and wanting to talk to her. There was no reason for him to leave his wife in our bedroom while he talked to his new teenager until 3 or 4 am.
in a nut shell we had a arguement about things and the next day he decides to end our relationship. Also did I mention I have helped in the raising of his other 2 kids, plus have a 4 yr. old of our own. Now he spends all his time with his new daughter, plus her mother (that he is more than likely still in love with) and her other two kids in my house. I was kicked to the curb so he could start a new family. How crappy is that???
The crazier part about things is that he isn't going to give me any support, as if I am the one who wanted to break this off. When we got married 5 yrs. ago it was for better or worse, I guess they didn't think about putting incest behavior or babies' mama in the vows. It got bad for him and he wanted out. It is his lose. What would u do in a situation like this?? Stay because u love him so much and u think u can over look the fact that our lives will never be the same, or give up on our marriage, start again??? What do u think???