Damn nothing like wanting instant gratification..just hang in there a join in on our forums and things will spark in due time .. best things are not rushed ..and welcome to the nuthouse.

Hummm ya think this could be about the blind mans dog?

A three-legged dog walks into a saloon in the Old West. He slides up to the bar and announces: “I’m looking for the man who shot my paw.”


I know

Wait, I live in texas, I do the black eyed peas on New Years too and cabbage..but I got it(the tradition) from my grandmother and shes from Mississippi

to be honest i feel not pretty

Humm let's see I want walk under a ladder.

When a black cat crosses my path I still cringe.

And I still eat Black Eyed Peas on New Years Day for good luck.

Ohhh and I don't do laundry on New Years Day.

Do I beleive that stuff no but can't seem to break the habit either.

Lex, I think what you are failing to see is that the "why" threads are followed with, (and I kicked his azz out, or he dumped me without a reason) is that what you want?

Do you want to be in a one sided relationship, where you are the winner short term, but end up alone in the long run anyway?

From my experience, it is usually a shock, they SEEM nice, and they SEEM genuine, and when they turn like a rabid dog, that is where the confusiion kicks in.

You can say what you want, or judge (this is a general comment..not meaning YOU persay) I like a no nonesense guy who is upfront and his cuts and bruises are seen in the very begining, at least then you know what you are dealing with. The ones who come off as "perfect" NEVER are. They are just as lonely and pathetic today as they were yesterday. They will be just as alone today as they will be tomorrow...UNLESS they can find a weaker prey and no one wants someone weaker unless you have issues that you are not dealing with.

Personally I want a strong man, who says "here are my issues" then I am going into something with my eyes open...

Just my 3.5 cents worth.