And you're spending another minute with this guy why? If you were enough for him, if he really had sincere feelings for you, he wouldn't need, nor really care for any porn media. From what you are saying, I'm telling you that this guy is very selfish, having very little consideration for the needs or feelings of others. As far as a meaningful, deep, satisfying relationship, this guy is a complete waste of time and should be dumped like last week's garbage, at least until he gets a clue about what the definition of a healthy relationshhip is--like that is ever going to happen. I hope you run from this guy as fast as you can, before he gets a chance to wreak any more havoc in your life. You deserve far better.