Ladies, please, if you are single, there is no reason for your place to be a mess. I find it to be a very unattractive quality. I am a divorced father and my day can be full at times and the most of a mess I will have is a few things in the sink and yesterday's socks and underwear on the bedroom floor. Real quick fix if company pops in unexpectedly. So when I stop by and see a mess like a tornado went by and can only assume that 1)you are lazy, 2)you are still immature 3)you don't have your **** together or 4)you were brought up in a barn(your mother told you that you weren't, but you have to prove her wrong.) So now when I come by to say hello and you push the clothes on the bed aside so we can copulate, it shouldn't be a surprise if I move on eventually. Just pointing out a major faux pas that women commit. If you have kids, stay strong, I am with you, I feel the pain.