thanks everyone for the positive feedback :D

amen. I know what thats like...If they cant appretiate you for who you are, and really want to spend time with you..then honestly i don't think their worth the trouble.

Any guys from 18 to 21 from around the sudbury area? :P I haven't seen all that many (not a surprise, not all that big a place, is it?XD). I'm pretty much looking to mingle and find a nice guy close enough to my age, living close enough to me. Perhaps even get a relationship to spark? :P don't know if i dont try! XD

My cat coco was adopted by me about 7 years ago, and i love him with all my heart. And let me tell you im not joking when i say i know who he likes- and who he doesn't. People say *cats are just animals. they dont have emotions like us humans do*. Well let me tell you people, that is highly not true! Espetially not when it comes to my baby...

He doesn't all that much like my mother. I could never explain why. (perhaps its the fact that i dont get along with her, and my cat favors me?) Well one day, he decided he'd have a little...fun. He ran into the bathroom, clawed into one end of the toilet papper and ran with it. He litterally tipied my moms whole room! I had a wonderful laugh over it...
...then guess who had to clean it up?
Yeep. took two hours to clean. IT WAS WORTH IT XD

Single :P No huge surprise there.

Or even just someone who lives close by is fine too. It doesn't have to be in sudbury =)

thank you =)

Why must i wish to be in his embrace,
And sit here crying instead.
To know the love must have gone,
And watch the wounds that have bled.

To want to be his,
But instead i'm alone.
And my love for him will never leave,
its not something to be outgrown.

In my heart so black yet pure,
I fell it tare to shreds.
As i try and fix the impossible,
I feel like im being pulled by threads.

Like a pupet with no puppeteer,
Simply manipulated by wind and pain.
I have accepted lonelyness embrace,
All happiness has been slain.

No one to lean on,
No one to hear my pittiful screams.
I wake in the middle of the night,
Night terrors have taken my dreams.

I've been left alone,
And oh so afraid.
You said you'd always be there...
I feel simply.... betrayed.....


Side note:
This is not one of my better works, but one of pure feeling. I wrote this shortly after my boyfriend left me. I have now gotten over it to an extent. Enough to know im ready to give love an other chance =) He may have been my first love...But he was not my true love.

thank you everyone :D i'm glad to be here =) I'm starting to really think i made a good choice my taking my friends advice and joining. Its such a nice warm society here :D

yeep. i just joined and im preeetty sure its because im seaking a relationship...lol

I'm looking for a nice sudbury guy to get to know, and possibly strike up a relationship with (if we both like eachother, of course lol. Take it slow, get to know eachother first.) I'm tired of long distance relationships. I want someone who can love me for me. I want someone i can actually cuddle!

thank you :D

i'm pretty much just looking for a guy who can accept me for who i am and love me as i am and not try to change me...really theres nothing more thats absolutely needed.
Except for honesty. Thats always a must.
and cuddly. Oh god, i need my cuddle time!

Alright. So i'm quite new to this. (obviously.) I've always been that quiet one in the corner, reading her books and pretty much keeping to herself. Until you actually get to know me! Then i shine like no tomorrow. I can make you laugh by the weirdest things i say and do. I'm actually really fun to be around. But others around here seem to only judge me because of my size (short and chubbie). Most guys around here just want to sleep and leave, and i'm tired of it. Everytime i tell a guy im a virgin, he runs for the hills. I've been single for 5 months now, after getting out of a serious relationship. He lived in new york, turns out he didn't love me. Funny huh? So i decided i'd try a little closer to home. And so i took my friends advice, jumped on my laptop, and joined this site. And thats pretty much how i got here, and why im here.
My real name is chantal, but everyone calls me chan, or Kitten. Because i'm so cuddly and huggable.
So if you like distance? Best you run for it now! You've been farely warned :P