Psychologists learn about people's behaviour from the past.
So we have to go back to Charles Darvin's theory of Evolution!!
That means one was a sort of beast and now develpoed into a human being.
My dog always goes back to the place where it last did it's business!! What do you think??

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Hi,
Let me pen a few thoughts. I would recommend that you do some soul searching. Emotional independance is a vital ingredient in a happy relationship. If one is so emotionally dependant on someone, the other can feel it. This creates feeling of being "trapped" will make a person run. If I can say, a women want a strong man or an equal. A normal women want a strong emotional arm around her. A successful relationship needs to stand on 4 feet - not two.
Find out what are the roots of your emotional dependance. Lack of attention and love in childhood? etc. If you don't settle first your past and mend it first, you will carry that in to your future relationship - won't give you a successful marriage neither. Even if you find someone who can play that role of caring, one day you might grow up and her role of being the caring partner will annoy you rather that help you. You would then complain of not being " Free" Her role gone, she won't be able to swim anymore. The end of your relationship arrives and you have another headache.

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Meanwhile:

A woman's husband had been slipping in and out of a coma for several months, yet she stayed by his bedside every single day. When he came to, he motioned for her to come nearer.

As she sat by him, he said, "You know what? You have been with me through all the bad times. When I got fired, you were there to support me. When my business failed, you were there. When I got shot, you were by my side. When we lost the house, you gave me support. When my health started failing, you were still by my side... You know what?"

"What dear?" She asked gently.

"I think you bring me bad luck."

A rich lonely widow decided that she needed another man in her life so she placed an ad, which read something like this:

RICH WIDOW LOOKING FOR MAN TO SHARE LIFE AND FORTUNE ...NEEDS TO HAVE THESE QUALIFICATIONS:

1) WON'T BEAT ME UP
2) WON'T RUN AWAY
3) HAS TO BE GREAT IN BED

For several months, her phone rang off the hook, her doorbell was ringing constantly, she received tons of mail, etc., all to no avail: none seemed to match her qualifications.

Then one day the doorbell rang yet again. She opened the door to find a man with no arms and no legs lying on the welcome mat.

Perplexed, she asked, "Who are you? And what do you want?"

"Hi," he said, " your search is over, for I'm the man of your dreams. I've got no arms so I can't beat you up and no legs so I can't run away."

"Well, then," she said, "what makes you think that you're so great in bed?"

To which he replied,..... "Well, I rang the doorbell, didn't I?

Try to get him to be interested into something else. Something that could be as interesting but something he can play with a calculated risk ratio and money management.
In casinos, the probability is against you and with hardly 4% probability advantage, the casino can have that edge to win over anyone.
Try to get him to take a Forex course ( example with www.robbooker.com ) That could replace his addiction and learn another form of investment. It is also a risky thing but with the right knowledge and mentoring from the veterans in this business, one can get the odds in one's favour.

P.S I will give him an introduction and a free basic course if you can get him to contact me.

A little old lady goes to the doctor and says, "I can't stop passing gas. Luckily, my farts don't smell and are always silent. As a matter of fact, I've farted twice since I've been here in your office, but you didn't even notice."
"I can help you," says the doc. "Take these pills and come back next week."
the next week, the lady returns. "Doctor," she says, "I don't know what you gave me, but now my farts smell awful."
The doctor says, "Good, we fixed your sinuses! Now let's work on your hearing."

Fortunately or unfortunately, men are first attracted by sight and smell.
To love a women, it is best to whisper to her what she needs to hear and listento her.
Lasting relationships for a women does not not matter too much on looks.
If you notice well most beutiful women don't happen to be married to the most handsome guys.
And ladies, just an advice. A little make up and a few kilos less is a great plus for your relationship. Compliment each other !! Not criticism !! But if your partner have an extreem low self esteem, you are living your relationship on one foot. God help you !!!