i think i can add to this topic. there r certain questions i always ask on a date because they r psycological and can tell alot about a person. questions for guys r if they have sisters or how they get along with ther mother because a general statment is that a guy treats his wife the way he treats his mother and having sisters makes a guy more sensitive and respectful twords women. questions to ask a girl r how is her relationship with her father because typicaly it determines how her personal relationships go. an understanding of psycology can make dating so much easier in my opinion- especialy when ur doing those speed dating things