Just joined this site today. I have met 4 men in the past 2 weeks for coffee... 2 of them after meeting and setting up a second date (they initiated) then send me an email/txt to say that their headspace isn't right for a relationship or that they were seeing if they were ready to move on from their exes... Maybe I should start charging for this service to "test their waters" as they are completely wasting my time! The 3rd man after 2 dates just texted me to say he didn't feel a spark between us... what's with the texting? The 4th man after coffee was very interested but looking to compliment his existing relationship (wheelchair bound wife)as "he has enough love to share for two"! MMMM he told me he was divorced... Very despondent human girl I am... looking to restore my faith in men who know what they want and can be honest..... Just venting my thoughts........... happy day