I find that having a son doesn't bother most men, but I can tell you that the men it does bother shouldn't and in the end won't be the ones you want around. I know this is difficult, but you need to focus on being a strong mother and not letting this drive you. You wouldn't want your boys to let it fuel them or make them feel like they are less valuable because these blind schmucks don't want to take any more responsibility than is minimally necessary to survive. So set the example by doing... easier said than done, but your boys are worth it.

I think someone has watched one too many movies!!

Normal is relative. My definition of normal has really low standards...

Just a load of bull! Ha. Isn't it amusing when half the people don't get the joke? I heart that.

Absolutely classic. I do deserve an academy award...

Good answer Spidey. I don't think its a trick question. This is a trick question...Whats the response you give when a woman asks if her arse looks fat in some jeans?

Go Bucks! O-H!

Someone thats only moderately pragmatic, who understands what pragmatic means, doesn't mind that I'm a big girl, and who won't lie even if his intentions are good.

For all of you Kevin Smith Fans, replace the man-friendly lesbian SAT question in Chasing Amy with my above listed criteria. He's a figment of my imagination just like Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny... who gets to the $100 bill first???

Thanks Angell. Im just looking for one that has decent, relatively normal people in it.

Does anyone know of any respectable BBW forum or meeting place?

That really sucks chick, sorry!

I think I get bored easily because I pick men who can't keep up with me... The law of attraction states we pick up a person who is a list of the things we don't want, because we tend to focus on those things. Dah well....