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Cheating
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I have to bring this up..... I read this thread.... I read it again... Ok...ready? Somewhere in here you said every guy you have dated has said you were the best girlfriend....AFTER they had broken up with you...and they don't know why they let you go.... You also said...every guy has cheated on you...(except one?). Ok....here comes the tough bit..... What's the common denominator in all those relationships? YOU. You are the 'problem' you are having with men not wanting to be monogomous. Are you clingy? Over attentive? Completely compliant? Emotionally dependent? A really neat way of someone getting the hint, that 'I am just not that into you anymore'....is to have sex with someone else..sometimes it's the ONLY thing the dependent one will hear/see/accept...that it is over. Think about it. This keeps happening to YOU. Hmmmm......So do something different to what you always do....to get a different result to what you are always getting. i am definatly not dependent....I am 20 years old i work 2 jobs and go to school full-time....i also live in an apt by myself no roommates I take care of me....no one else does....im not obsessive over a guy....i dont call or txt repeatedly or constantly need to know where he is or who he is with....if you trust him you dont need to know those things.....im also not the jealous girlfriend....i have guy friends some of which are my best friends and if the guy im seeing cant accept that then go find someone who will let you control your friends because that girl will not be me... |
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People have survived for thousands and thousands of years without "networking" (by which, I am assuming you're talking about the internet). Also, It's ALWAYS about what you know, not who you know. Just like anything else in life, LEARN from the mistakes you make, so you (hopefully) don't make the same mistakes over and over again. Some folks never learn that. No i am not talking about the internet when i say networking....and i dont know what world you live in but with the economy the way it is now...it is about who you know not what you know...... |
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Cheating
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He's 24, you're 20. To be perfectly honest and blunt, neither one of you have grown up yet....probably him arguably more than you at this point. Exactly................ 
I know I am only 20 and I dont claim to know everything. I have a lot more to know and experience but just because I am only 20 also does not mean that I am immature...honestly I am more immature then some 30,40,50 year olds....i have my life together more then they do... why am i on a dating site? what kind of question is that....i joined this site over 2 years ago...and I dont really date anyone from here but getting into the forums and getting advice and meeting new people is always good. In this day and age its all about who you know not what you know, and you need to start networking as early as you can. Otherwise you will never survive. |
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Cheating
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oh - sorry to hear about that. 
he obviosly does not consider that he is even in a relationship. may not know what a relationship is...probably such things do not concern him... i dont think he even knows what it is like to be in a committed relationship although he is 24....i think he has been playing girls his entire life and has never actually been in a real relationship before....im not trying to bash him....but what makes guys be that way....is it something that happened to them as a child or is it what media makes you think you should do....i just can not wrap my mind around this....i would never dream of being unfaithful....if you want to be unfaithful you might as well end it and have your fun being single instead of hurting someone.... |
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Cheating
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problem with this....is i have been cheated on by every guy i have dated except one...some say its the guys i pick...but honestly i have dated all types of guys...bad boys to good guys....yet they all cheat....and it has always been with girls younger then me....this last particular one he had younger older didnt matter but there were a lot...i only know about 7 but im sure there are more....im not looking for sympathy...just answers because i cant figure it out on my own anymore....
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ok i will narrow it down a little bit.....i know for a fact it is not because he was not happy in the relationship....i dont want to brag but i have been told by ex's that i was the best girlfriend they ever had and the one thing they regret is letting me go....but the person i am specifically talking about didnt just cheat once...i found out tonight that he has been with 7 other girls in the last 4 days....and when i got a phone call from my best friend saying she just saw him at the bar...asking me if we broke up because he was all over some girl and making out with her...i went to the bar...yes im not old enough to get in but i was lucky enough that they were outside smoking...and he had his arms wrapped around her....i confronted him and he acted like he didnt even know who i was....
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im gonna say....boxer briefs....hmmmm
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Cheating
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Why do guys feel the need to cheat? Why do they think they can get away with it and that the female will never find out? I know girls cheat too...but im looking for what goes on in a guys mind...
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Distance..
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I will not limit myself to someone local...you never know where that "special someone" is....
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well then she knows that you and i were meant for each other kaylas.... cause i am crzy too LOL hahahaha....she really is crazy...i mean im crazy...but not as crazy as her.... |
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hell no...my mom is crazy...
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ahhhhhh and the sweetest one back  or two
on the cheek |
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have you ever....
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Please do...i kinda need it back....i will borrow it to you in august while im in aberdeen.... the only thing I ever heard of being stolen in ND is cattle..... well give it back now....i will be in aberdeen from august to may...so you can use it anytime you want i promise |
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have you ever....
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Please do...i kinda need it back....i will borrow it to you in august while im in aberdeen....
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have you ever....
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had your car stolen....i havnt up until tonight....so angry....what to do... What kind of car was it, and where were the keys when it got stolen ? it is just a 90 buick park avenue nothing special...but ive had it 6 years....and the keys were in my pocket when it got stolen... I suppose you checked the local impound yards ? I reported it to the cops... |
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Sorry to hear that had it happen to me several months ago it does really suck. The cops found it 2 days later said it was just some punks out for a joyride and when they run it out of gas they park it and find another one. I guess the only good thing was it just had a broken window and ignition switch. I hope they find your car and the bastards who stole it. WEll im hoping thats the case....since the low fuel light was on when i got home...didnt feel like standing out in the cold to fill it up tonight....thought i would do it before work tomorrow...so i hope its some broke punks that just needed a way to get somewhere...it wouldnt have gotten them far...maybe to the gas station down the street thats about it |
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have you ever....
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had your car stolen....i havnt up until tonight....so angry....what to do... What kind of car was it, and where were the keys when it got stolen ? it is just a 90 buick park avenue nothing special...but ive had it 6 years....and the keys were in my pocket when it got stolen... |
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Well you couldnt see any of it...it was all in the trunk....my laptop was in my backpack....so you couldnt see anything valuable in it...all you saw was a bunch of garbage from going out of town all week for christmas.....and thanks for saying yall are sorry...im not really looking for sympathy...just venting my anger this way...haha...but thanks guys...
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have you ever....
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trust me my car was not worth stealing...worst part..my laptop was in there...along with a bunch of stuff...since i was moving out of my house and back to my parents house.....uggh...so frustrated |
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have you ever....
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had your car stolen....i havnt up until tonight....so angry....what to do...
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