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Tue 10/20/09 07:48 AM

unapproachable?

For me the sexier she is the worse I am to talk to her as a complete stranger.

There are times however when I feel this attraction between us no matter how sexy she is and that leads to conversation but it takes time usually. So if it was like a one look glance probably didn't make a move but if it was many many many times I probably still didn't make a move, but if it was more than once or she walks near me or she stares into my eyes and stays fixated on me chances are I'll take a shot. Also it depends on who I'm with. If she's too hot for words I probably wouldn't talk to her no matter who was there but there have been occasions where the friends that I have =the communication between her and I. I don't know why but certain people when I'm around them I feel like the entire world is perfect and this angel in front of my eyes that is pure beauty is just meant to be talked to as nothing could go wrong with my wing man in my corner.

Still there are plenty of times that this doesn't happen which is why I got a new tactic and that tactic was how to make women approach me. This tactic works easier. There are still times where it doesn't though. If she's stunning and she approaches me I'm stunned and that's all there is to it. It allows me to keep up conversations though and it allows for ice to break and it definitely allows me to see many many many boobies that I would have never seen without this technique.




bigsmile

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Mon 10/19/09 10:17 PM
i'm for it

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Mon 10/19/09 09:13 PM
geez are you people narcissistic or what :tongue:

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Mon 10/19/09 06:14 PM





..if one of the dollar bills in your wallet was once in the butt crack of a stripper?


Nope but I wash my hands after handling money.

This weekend I was out-of-town. During the drive there and during the drive back, I ate fast food. The cashier handled my money and then put her hand in my drinking cups and handed them to me. I was getting the food for my parents and child.

Both times I politely asked them for new cups - ones that they didn't touch while they're touching money. One girl didn't understand what I was requesting.slaphead


This is why I don't understand fast food places letting cashiers also be food handlers. Can't do that in a grocery store.


that's odd.

in my country in our fast food outlets there's a cashier who takes your order and your money... she gives you a reciept with a number for your order and there are separate workers down the line who prepare and give you your food etc.

i thought that was the same everywhere ohwell


It is like that everywhere, but if there is nothing to do cashiers do what they can to help out, that's all.


ahhh

well that just defeats the purpose of the arrangement doesn't it lol.

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Mon 10/19/09 05:45 PM



..if one of the dollar bills in your wallet was once in the butt crack of a stripper?


Nope but I wash my hands after handling money.

This weekend I was out-of-town. During the drive there and during the drive back, I ate fast food. The cashier handled my money and then put her hand in my drinking cups and handed them to me. I was getting the food for my parents and child.

Both times I politely asked them for new cups - ones that they didn't touch while they're touching money. One girl didn't understand what I was requesting.slaphead


This is why I don't understand fast food places letting cashiers also be food handlers. Can't do that in a grocery store.


that's odd.

in my country in our fast food outlets there's a cashier who takes your order and your money... she gives you a reciept with a number for your order and there are separate workers down the line who prepare and give you your food etc.

i thought that was the same everywhere ohwell

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Mon 10/19/09 05:39 PM

I'm doin great. Moved away from the friends that were using me for drugs, and moved in with my best friend, who doesn't even do drugs anymore. life is getting better one month at a time it seems


i'm really glad to hear it flowerforyou bigsmile

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Mon 10/19/09 11:29 AM


I've always been told by men that I'm a very approachable person...

after so many times hearing that I asked why... - what about me made them feel comfortable approaching me...?

By far though, the main thing I've been told over the years about why they felt comfortable approaching me, was my smile. I've heard that they could just tell I was a nice person who wouldn't be rude, so they didn't feel nervous to say hello.

So maybe that's the trick - smile more and and for every person to have more confidence in themselves.

A simple "hello" could change your life. The man I was with for 12 years before he died of cancer a few years ago - we met in an airport in Vegas. I was walking to the baggage claim area, and he literally just approached me and walked side-by-side with me - I remember laughing about how bold this stranger was being...I said, "Do I know you?" and smiled, and he simply extended his hand and said "I'd like you to, my name is Mike"...and life as we knew it changed...

Though I lost him, I can not imagine how my life would've been had he not made that bold move in the airport. It was shocking and yes, somewhat out-there for most people to do -- but it's proof that we are all put in certain places/situations at just the right second to meet the right person -- it's up to us to act on it.

I'm so thankful he did...

So maybe the next time someone catches your attention, and you feel a strong pulling to them - don't wonder what to say or how you'll feel if nothing comes of it. Just do it.... life is too short to worry about what might go wrong - every now and then a lot goes right too...

:smile:




what a lovely post. one of my favourites in this thread flowerforyou

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Sun 10/18/09 09:53 PM



no women is every unaproachable..... some are just hard to aproach.


and why is that? :smile:


many factors make women easier to aproach. if you have a few drinks it makes it easier. the biggest thing.....

If you have no reason to try something it makes it easier to aproach them. If you only want to talk, not date or sleep with.


drinker

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Sun 10/18/09 09:52 PM



damn i sounded like wally cleaver.


i'm not exactly sure who that is but if it's something bad, no you didn't :tongue:

thanks for your honesty drinker


You dont know the Beav's older brother Wally??? what was Wally's best friends name?


no idea ohwell

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Sun 10/18/09 09:46 PM

damn i sounded like wally cleaver.


i'm not exactly sure who that is but if it's something bad, no you didn't :tongue:

thanks for your honesty drinker

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Sun 10/18/09 09:36 PM

no women is every unaproachable..... some are just hard to aproach.


and why is that? :smile:

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Sun 10/18/09 07:33 PM
I only carry hundred dollar bills $$$

bigsmile :tongue:

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Sun 10/18/09 06:07 PM
Edited by JasmineInglewood on Sun 10/18/09 06:10 PM
If it's obviously difficult for him to say it. Or if he waited a long time to say it.

If he says it 2 weeks after my meeting him, or without a hint of difficulty... It doesn't quite ring true for me, and is probably something he says often and indiscriminately

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Sun 10/18/09 05:50 PM


You like my shirt? I like your dentist ;-)

Doug


hi and welcome


What she said flowerforyou

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Sun 10/18/09 05:49 PM

You like my shirt? I like your dentist ;-)

Doug


laugh laugh laugh





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Sun 10/18/09 04:31 PM
i just might steal your idea artgurl :tongue:

but i was thinking along the lines of a man saying this to a woman (who was in fact wearing a shirt bigsmile )

i'm wondering if that's a pick up line or if he's just got an eye for women's fashion. ohwell


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Sun 10/18/09 04:17 PM

it is if he isn't wearing one bigsmile


laughdrinker

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Sun 10/18/09 04:14 PM
Edited by JasmineInglewood on Sun 10/18/09 04:15 PM
is that a plausible pick-up line?

bigsmile :tongue:

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Sun 10/18/09 03:05 PM
i can see where you're coming from OP and i don't see anything wrong with it flowerforyou

keep looking for what you want. but at some point, you're gonna realize that the older you get, the smaller the likelihood of you finding such a woman your age. you'll either have to make the choice to become a pedo or slacken your criteria a wee bit to encompass women who are still beautiful human beings inside and out regardless of what they've done in the past.


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Sun 10/18/09 12:15 PM
such is the nature of internet forums.

everyone has the freedom to say whatever they want to... ranging from the inanest of drivel to the profoundest of life philosophies.

the point is the same for everyone. self-expression.


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