I am single but I am not interested in spending all of my free time searching for a lover in a minute, YOU FEEL ME? I think what is more important and stable is the possibility for a friend. I am searching for someone who I can identify with. Someone who is gay and of african descent. Someone who is not down low, but can pull it off. I am wondering if I should invest my time into this, or should I just relax and maybe someday I'll meet that new friend who is gay like me?

The only reason I am hear is because I need a friend in the same city.somebody who doesn't want sex from me, but desires the same things. what should I do should I just wait?