Topic: Be passive or aggressive?
justmejonny's photo
Sat 10/08/11 08:33 AM
I am single but I am not interested in spending all of my free time searching for a lover in a minute, YOU FEEL ME? I think what is more important and stable is the possibility for a friend. I am searching for someone who I can identify with. Someone who is gay and of african descent. Someone who is not down low, but can pull it off. I am wondering if I should invest my time into this, or should I just relax and maybe someday I'll meet that new friend who is gay like me?

The only reason I am hear is because I need a friend in the same city.somebody who doesn't want sex from me, but desires the same things. what should I do should I just wait?

hotbtm4u64's photo
Sun 10/09/11 12:56 PM
Passive or aggressive ? I assume your search technique right ? And friends first always man thats a good policy .

"The only reason I am hear is because I need a friend in the same city.somebody who doesn't want sex from me, but desires the same things. what should I do should I just wait? "

Excellent approach ..I employ both passive and aggressive in my search for love man .If you see someone interesting chat em up ..

Good luck and be safe .

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Sun 10/09/11 01:00 PM

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Sun 10/09/11 02:24 PM

I am single but I am not interested in spending all of my free time searching for a lover in a minute, YOU FEEL ME? I think what is more important and stable is the possibility for a friend. I am searching for someone who I can identify with. Someone who is gay and of african descent. Someone who is not down low, but can pull it off. I am wondering if I should invest my time into this, or should I just relax and maybe someday I'll meet that new friend who is gay like me?

The only reason I am hear is because I need a friend in the same city.somebody who doesn't want sex from me, but desires the same things. what should I do should I just wait?


Hello Jonny and welcome to Mingle waving ....I say make the first move...your OP sounds so sincere.. You will have no problem communicating your feelings to the people you discover here...Good luck to you!!biggrin