Witty, hey,


I'm just reading your Post now, I felt I had to just say what I think about it, from my point of view.

Let it go.
Let your ex-husband and his (new) wife on his side do their thing.

After your son get's back, you ASK him; How it was, what was good, what was (he thought) not good.

You'll be able to evaluate properly.
Make sure YOU yourself can relax, work on getting your own life comfortable, and fill it with good energy of your own.

Don't judge so fast, don't hold a grudge, don't warn or forbid your Son to go there or not-do-somethings-there.

You'd be surprised things will turn out good, maybe better as you thought, but provided you can take a helicopter-view on the whole situation.
Your Peace on the whole, it also works through your son, onto your Ex's situation.
And the best for everybody, that's something you should be happy with.

You'll have to live with "them" for the rest of your life, there's 'no escape'. And that shouldn't be necessary.
So take a step back, relax, focus on yourself, and ... be happy.

bye,
Hans