Pulp Fiction ROCKS!!!! Have seen it like 30 times and will see it another 30.

Darlin...I HAD to LEARN how to say NOOOO!!!!!!!! It was hard for me cuz I am a bit co-dependent and didn't want to hurt anyones feelings and I was a bit of a controll freak. Thought if I didn't do it someone else would just do it half assed anyway. Thing is when you do learn to say NOOOOO...people don't get pissed. They just find another way or someone else to do it. Just let them know that you are a bit overwhelmed at this time, that you have quite enough on your plate and would be glad to help out some other way (something not so demanding on you or your time).PROMISE you, it will be o.k.

Spedang