as one of the rare nice guys your talking about,i think alibobs has hit the nail on the head. all the nice guys have gone back to meeting friends the old fashioned way. if any of them are like myself, they find themselves back on the singles scene and as a way of breaking the ice they sign up to an online dating site. only trouble is since they're new to meeting people online, they're naive and trust the first person to show an interest in them. but it turns out that the person is not who they say they are and turns the nice guy off the online scene before he has a chance to meet any of the good people. but i figure it's worth a second go before i give up