Try scented candles, even if you don't burn them. That may work. The best ones have a great scent, even without being lit.

Personality, legs and facial hair.

No, that's not a red flag. That's good common sense to put that statement out there...so that the creeps can stay away!

If you pick up on feelings, you're an empath. This can help you in many ways. But, a person has to tune into it. That's one thing I have myself. Of course I don't have all the abilities you do and it seems as if many people have different abilities that they aren't even aware of. Very seldom do I feel anything really bad about someone, but if I do...I steer clear of them completely.

Belated Merry Christmas. Sorry, couldn't tell ya where they might have gone, since I don't know anyone on here. I hope you find them soon.

I agree. My picture isn't wonderful...and it's not one of those fake "glamour" shots, but it is me.

Conan731:

Don't feel bad, my amount has gone backwards!! As if, somehow, a few of the people who had looked at my profile...changed their mind! Talk about weirdness in general.

See if you can get them to tell you what they want. Sometimes spirits are trying to convey a message. Other times, they just seem to want to hang out with a person simply because they like them.

No, you're not crazy. Always remember there are people who haven't experienced anything like this, and they just naturally think medication is the answer, when it isn't, at all. There are various ways to deal with spirits. My philsophy has always been, as long as they aren't harmful, there's no problem. If you ever encounter bad ones, though, then it's time to get specialists in (and not for medication either!), who can clear out the bad spirits.

I'd be cautious in listening to anyone who assumes you need medication. If they haven't experienced anything to do with spirits, etc., they are likely to think someone needs to do some drugs and things will "go away", and life's just not that simple!

A spirit guide is someone that you knew that has died. Unlike a guardian angel, who is assigned at birth, and you don't know. However, angels can take different forms for their assignments too. My daughter has been lucky enough to see at least one angel before. :)

You might want to simply talk to them (they can hear you and will listen) and tell them to please go away. The spirits I've dealt with, over the years (in different places that I lived and in 2 different states) never were a problem, but did like to be mischievious. Fortunately, there was only that one time that I saw the man in the bed, but because my father had died in 2004, I first thought "oh no! My dad's come back to haunt me." But, it wasn't him. It was most likely the man that had lived in the house and owned it before the guy who lives there now. Spirits are interesting. They pick certain people to be around...and they can make noises, bang pans, ring doorbells, do the footstep routine, etc.

They could be spirit guides, too.

You aren't alone. I saw a dead man, in the bed I used to sleep in, several years ago, in the city I now live in. It scared the living crap out of me. You're probably a sensitive and in tune to these kind of things.

1. Not to be so hard on myself. (Which is the same as last years, it will probably be ongoing.)
2. Try to learn to relax. (Not sure I'll ever accomplish that one.)

Sorry to hear that Chad. I hope your family and other friends rally around you during this time.

If so, please let me know. I don't care if there aren't any people that look at my profile, but would like to eliminate that "feature". Thanks!

Must be the holidays. Any romantic men out there?

A 7 7 , please. Thank you very much and Happy New Year!

No. I'm not a gold digger. Yet, it seems to me like many men are after looks and money. It's ok, though. I don't expect to make friends or anything else on here.