I have met several men from other sites. Trust is a big one for sure. You just need to believe only half what you are told. this does not mean that the person you are chatting to is dishonest. Honesty is a commodity that is not practiced by many. It does not matter in my viewpoint how long you chat one month or one year, if the person is a liar. Finding love at best it is like a crap shot and you just have take a chance. If you do not open your heart you will not receive that love. Love means getting hurt and that is a for sure not a maybe. So my friend meet and expect friendship and if love happens then it is a bonus. I now have a hockey sack full of friends to enjoy a cuppa....

From one Newbie to another Hello and Happy New Years to all.