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What would you do if you come home one day and found your spouse/partner having sex with a close family member? Do you pretend as if nothing happened just for peace to reign in the family or you call it quit with your partner or you disown the family member involved or you dissociate yourself from the two or you just forgive them and move on with life. If you forgive them, can they ever be trusted? I have forgiven infidelity when the remorse seemed real, the partner would be irrelevant to the betrayal except that the partner in that case would also be betrying me I think that my feelings would be consistent for both of them, If I cut one off , Id cut both off If I forgave one, ID forgive both once Im shown someone is capable of this type of betrayal though, trust is gonna be an issue for a while if not permanently... I guess it's easier to forgive than to forget, don't you think so? Which brings about rebuilding of the trust you once had for them |
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 i wil expose them to the whole world to see, then i wil forgive them. 
But would you accept any of them back into your life? |
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CALL JERRY AND CA$H IN BIG!! 
I guess that'd be a good discussion on Jerry's show.lol |
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What would you do if you come home one day and found your spouse/partner having sex with a close family member? Do you pretend as if nothing happened just for peace to reign in the family or you call it quit with your partner or you disown the family member involved or you dissociate yourself from the two or you just forgive them and move on with life. If you forgive them, can they ever be trusted?
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Should love ever give up?
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love is a verb. love needs action its not just something you say It's a verb but sometimes it act as a noun....lol, I know someone who is called love |
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I remember
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I watched the telecast of the remembrance ceremony, i can't but feel the emotions in my veins. And the reading out of the names of the heros
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give them some money and send them to a movie Soldier don't you think that's an avenue for more intimacy between them? |
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I remember
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Thank y'all
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That's good advise. I'm just glad we never had children. She was already cross eyed as a goose. Lord knows what those children would have looked like....... 
Too funny! 
It's funny to me too |
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I remember
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The shatters at dawn
The fell of the identical giants The trauma of the city The tragedy that befall us all Souls departed prematurely Dead without remains Oh tear drop from my eye Memories afresh Just like yesterday but it's been 10years Yes we mourn Forever we remember |
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Should love ever give up?
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Oh yes i like ur poem, find love again, not until it finds you. There's no giving up
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Should love ever give up?
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Love is not something outside of us to be attained. Loves is created. It can exist even if it's not mutual but in order for the relationship to exist and function effectively it has to be mutual. When someone hurts me it's easier to let them go. But regardless of anything and everything, I won't stay unless it's mutual. Is love really overrated? I believe it does exist and can work if the people involved agrees to make it work |
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Should love ever give up?
Edited by
Unknow
on
Fri 09/09/11 04:20 PM
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I have been in a relationship where my partner called it quit but I found it difficult to let them go, not because they were perfect but because I truly loved them. Later on, I found out that some times those we love don't love us back and unless the feeling of love remains mutual it can never grow. To me I believe love is a seed, and if planted on a good soil can grow like banyan. I still believe true love exist somewhere, maybe mine has not gotten to me yet. With little being said, at what point would you say a 'no no' in a relationship and how did you feel when your ex told you it's over without you hurting them? Did you ever feel like having them back? Even though they've hurt you badly? Share some experience. Thank you
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Kids are kids. Boys like girls. Girls like boys. Most of the time. The point is, if a kid has a crush or infatuation.....it is completely natural. Trying to stop someone from liking/loving someone else is like trying tostop sun rise. Krupa I think you need to consider the below comment.....hey Depends on the ages. If the boy i 16 and the girl 8, that could be pretty dangerous. Would never leave them alone, and if I feared for the young girl I would have to live apart for the sake of protecting the child. |
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What's it with age?
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Younger men looking for older women generally do o for one of four reasons: (1) They haven't currently attracted a younger one but will drop the older one the very second one shows up, (2) they are looking for a mom, (3) they are looking for a woman old enough to die early and leave them with a pile of money, or (4) they are looking for a hopefully dumb cook and housekeeper while they toy with a younger woman on the side. Does this mean that older men don't cheat on their partners? And does it also mean that older mean don't date younger women too? Or I guess younger women are also looking for the same things in older me just as the younger men.??? (5) they think older women are an easy make sexually. Probably number one is the biggest reason. I find that old men are often intimidated by the thought of women their ages dating or being with younger men. I lived with a man MUCH younger than me fore seven years. When the relationship ended and I began to date, when I told men my age about my relationship, they often said, "I can't compete with that!" From reading forums on dating sites, this is a sentiment often repeated. Age has little to do with men trying to find a woman who is an "easy make": 70 year men do the same! (5) they think older women are an easy make sexually. Probably number one is the biggest reason. This is not always true because of this comment below Interesting Topic....... Since I have come into my OWN New Life, I have pondered this as well, but a friend brought it to my attention. She says if you find someone younger then when walking hand in hand, what the worse could happen? He makes you look even younger.....(: Always New ways of looking at Old ways.....This I enjoy...(: |
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I thought it was "illegal" or whatever to date someone like that? For instance, me dating my step-sister, didn't know you could do that legally. Not saying I want to date her lol, but was using that as example. I guess it's legally acceptable in some places, someone just said in the thread that he married his cousin. If they were raised together than I believe most people would think it was wrong. If it was a combined family and they hadn't grown up in the same house then I think it would be more acceptable. Lots of stigma attached to this situation. I guess you can't just withstand such situation, lots of stigma and some level of immorality. But what would you to to disintegrate the 'two lovers' |
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What's it with age?
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Why's it that most women see it more of a taboo to date a younger man? One thing i've noticed is that most of these women don't have a cogent reason but they tend to follow the norm of the society. I've bot seen it anywhere or written in a book that the man must be older than the woman in a relationship. So, how young of a man can you date? Afterall nobody complains if an 80years old man marries a 20 years old lady. You need to get out more. There has been a trend for several years wherein older women date or marry younger men. And if you think that society "condones" an 80 year old man with a 20 year old woman, think again! People would say that she married him for his money. Well they'd always say but it hurts no-one as long as they're not sorry for being in that relationship. And i think some people will avoid the trauma of what others would say about them, hence they won't want to be a societal deviant instead they avoid such relationship. |
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What's it with age?
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Well for me age is the least thing I consider or look out for in going into a relationship. I need someone that'll make me smile and that i'll adore, regardless of who they are(terms and conditions apply), where they've been and their age
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well ok but i would need more information to give educated advice Well many have cleared the waves that it's not bad based on location, believes and no blood ties. But they were raised and grew up together, just like blood relations |
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SoldierofAmerica please i want to hear your advise
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