Wow...you guys are great, I didn't ecspect to get such a fast reply/feedback..LOL...Now I know where to come for some honest answers, from peeps I never knew until today. Thanks, I'm sorry to sound like such a newbie. Anyway..I am Lisa and its a pleasure to meet you all. Take care and I will be back to share more with you and maybe have some advise from some of my experiences as well..LOL

Nite all...Lisa

I know that most men would say that after meeting online, that contacting eachother in person should be ASAP. On the other hand, myself as a lady being cautious...I think it should be after a few conversations on the phone, emailing, etc...after you get that feeling that he/she could be safe. That is just the way that I see it because I have not been doing this for that long.

And of course, there must be some kind of chemistry between both parties.

Do you think that is being to careful...or am I right on?

I would like to know the opinions of male and female. Be honest ~

Thanks in advance and good luck to you all...

Lisa in Venice ~