me personally im a very nice and sincere guy who grew up in new york city.one of the hardest most roughest places,its not easy being nice to everyone.because i know first hand that people do take your kindness for weakness.but at times it does hurt when a woman is trying to use me for something or cant take the way i am.im really nice but not a punk or a succer at that.i have my limits on how women treat me.if i feel that there not for me,they definitely jet jettisoned.im not going to change who i am regardless of whom im with.because its there loss if they cant appreciate the type of person that i am.im not trying to be perfect or make myself sound like im the ultimate nice guy,which is bull crap.but i do know how to treat a lady and i am diamond in the rough. i do go hang out in different areas or places.doesnt matter if its in the ghetto to somewhere quaint.as long as me or my other is having a good time thats all that matters.im not going to just date or be with any woman,i do have my limits to.and will not settle for less..i dont live in new york any more but im still looking for my other half and have learned always keep a spare around.