Where to begin?? I have been in 2 monogamous relationships which spanned 1/2 of my life. Therefore am new to the dating scene and have been unimpressed by the hury up and wait attitudes. If it's not the bed room then it's the chapel that they are looking for!
All that I can say is that by being soo picky they are limiting themselves in an environment which they could otherwise be utilizing for maximum exposure.
Come on!! Dating doesn't have to be soo hard! At the very least you could agree to disagree once you have met him.
Just give that guy the chance and perhaps you'll be surprized!!