Active mature man who has spent most of his life in monogamous relationship (18 yrs total). Looking for friendship, possibly companionship. Not interested in games, drugs, sleeping around. I am my kids DAD. That means that I AM involved. If that is bothersome then please don"t persue any further. Gentleman who is trapped in a modern world of hurry up and wait. I should have been born in the 50s! Now in the so called "dating game" A 40 yr old dating virgin that is. So no games here. Just me. Kind of an oxymoron.... my looks can be deceiving.