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Have you ever - part 5
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have you ever givin a stranger your phone number? |
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dose he need an eye patch?
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What turns u off?
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People who say one thing, and do the exact opposite.
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not ready
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I totally understand how you feel Terri
You have to know where your at and what you can handle physically,emotionally, etc for any relationship to work. For me with the way my life is I want to date, It would be nice to have a boyfriend, but I'm not ready to live with someone, and I honestly don't know that I will ever do the Marriage thing again. Just be true to yourself, the rest will fall into place.
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Have you ever - part 5
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no have you ever soaked in a bubble bath? |
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maybe just a little off the top? |
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My Friend
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lovely write, Its so nice to have friends like that.
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Thanks Ouizee, Hippie
I'm very happy with my progress, I can look in the mirror, and like what I see. I got all dolled up for a date yesterday, and loved the way I looked, unfortunately, the date didn't happen. But It still made me feel good to look in the mirror, and be happy with what I see.
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Grits :)
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Thinking I'm an idiot to get my hope up for something that is never gonna happen.
 Thanks Jeff
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Hey Everyone, Sorry I haven't posted much lately, my life has been crazy busy. I had company from out of town for a week, and then had to do the baby shower for my daughter. One of the strangest things is realizing how much I use to eat, compared to what I eat now. Things are going good as far as my weight loss, keeping my calories, protein amounts where they need to be. I weighted in this morning.
:  I'm at 288
Hope everyone is doing well,  HUGS to everyone.
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Thinking I'm an idiot to get my hope up for something that is never gonna happen.
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HI EVERYONE.
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So sorry for your losses. You and your family are in my prayers.
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~ pleasures
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lovely TB
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5 date rule?
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My rule is three dates  good to see you TB
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5 date rule?
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I think people set time frames like that because they secretly feel that their feelings are unimportant. Anyone who received the information could either be respectful of the person they claim is of interest to them, or be stressed thinking they will be expected to perform on date #5. I would rather not set a time frame and rely on what feels right to me as a person. On the other hand, if youre worried theyre only after sex, maybe this is a tool to get rid of them. In other words, if you like your rule, then I like your rule too. That is how I respond. yeah thats the way i was looking at it . . more as a tool to sort through the ones only interested in sex. |
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5 date rule?
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I cannot set a time it will take me to care for someone. If I'm not ready to share myself sexually, it's simply not going to happen. Any man who does not want to wait for that gift, only wants to take, and does not care enough to gain my trust to begin with. I only want a man who gives himself to me freely and without reservations. Why would I want someone I had to coerce into having sex with me?  
I haven't ever used the 5 date rule, I was just curious about people take on it. I'm just really getting tired guys who think that i will have sex with someone Ive only talked to online, or expect sex the 1st time we meet. Even though I clearly tell them before had that is not what I am looking for. So I was considering telling guys that I had a 5 date rule, as a way to help the the situation, and wanted others opinions on it. |
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5 date rule?
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No problem. You have to know someone well before you can even become intimate. Otherwise it is just sex. Everybody who is normal desires and enjoys sex but real intimacy goes well beyond sex and sex without intimacy is hollow. I think that "having a rule" is weird though. It is almost like "well we are on the fifth date now...now what?!?!"
So my rule is - not before I feel like I know someone well enough. That way if it feels right we can just go for it and if it doesn't feel right then maybe later.
thats a good rule.
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