rpwolf.....make sure all of your drives are turned on in the bios and they may need formatted if they are new before it will recognize them.

that's a lot of hard drive space.....hate to wonder what you are planning on doing with it.

"and I can't find a woman that is woman enough to handle all that"

I think he needs to find a woman enough to smack that attitude out of him....sheeeeez

I kinda mentioned to him today that he needed to leave. He gave me that "what am I supposed to do" look.... I don't really care what he does..as long as it is quickly.. Don't tell me you are going, take half of your stuff, and then show up at 2:30 AM like you belong here.

Well, longhair, you just made me laugh....I thank you for that!

jenkua77... I am not totally sure how I feel about your comments. We have been having issues for a while, but I know that he loves me and I never thought he would leave me. He has spent the last week looking for an apartment.....he even went as far as to tell me Friday night that it was the last night he was sleeping here.

He know he is hurting me...if he decided to stay now, I am not sure I would let him. I love him, but I would feel like it was only a matter of time before he pull his crap again. It is not fair to me.......sorry...little pitty party there.

I envy you long hair....being on the road for a few months would definitely help.

Thank you for your kind words. I know it will get easier with time, but I need him to go if he is going... I am trying to be patient and understanding, but it is making me very bitter. The relationship could have been ended civilly with a chance of reconciliation but the longer he drags this out, the madder I get about it.

My live-in boyfriend of 9 years is leaving me. I say "leaving" because he hasn't gone yet. He is looking for a place to stay. That makes it worse than if he was gone. Knowing that he is leaving but still having him here just prolongs the agony. I don't really know what to do or how to handle this.