Here in Tampa Bay we have a special affection for the Patriots...
Go Giants!!!!!

She does have a hold over him! She is the mother of his children and that is a tremendous "hold".

Only time MAY get you her confidence. She is a mother and the first instinct is to protect the babies. Be patient if you want this to happen.

You are doing the right thing. Being a giving, understanding and courteous human being.

Maybe a nice exchange of your feelings with your boyfriend so that he can help with the situation. I believe that since he broughy her in to your space that the responsibility of trying to have a good atmosphere when they are around would fall squarely on him since you are already doing your part.

Beware of becoming bitter or arrogant. I don't know what her motivations are, but you certainly don't want to change your person to retain anybody. Good luck!

I can taste it already! When can I come over?

Welcome Ash.