i'll say.. stingers and chompers!.. i'll bet thats one heck of a fight if they get mad at each other!

I didn't know goblins knocked on doors.. I just thought they walked right through them.. what exactly are goblins anyways? Are they anything like zombies?

they'd have to unless they wanted to be lunch lol
or are your jellyfish some feisty lil boogers?

people who do the things they do to have kids but don't take responsibility for their actions and take care of them :(

up a balloon

No, I'm not needy. I set my boundaries so that I won't have the feeling. But I do see what you're saying about interest in the first person you meet bc I have actually done that before and regretted it in the end. And yea becca, maybe we are to nice. I have been told that a couple of times, but thise few times had nothing to do with relationships. It seems as thought, Stranger, that smiling and shrugging it off is the only thing working these days, but do you think maybe I'm shrugging it off a bit too much? Maybe even coming off as a "leave me alone" kind of person? I hope not because thats the last thing I'll ever be.

Yes, I flirt- even when I don't mean to. It just comes natural sometimes.

I would love to meet more random people but I'm a lil shy. I mean I could up to a hot guy or any guy for someone else but when it comes to me, I usually never work up the courage to just say hi. Sometimes I do, I won't lie, but most of the time its hard.
And to becca.. what do see in us that they can use against us later in the relationship? thats when it hurts the most.. are they trying to hurt us? because if the are.. they're succeeding

I never really had that many relationships. The ones I ended up in were usually bad ones because of the guy doing what he wanted and me letting him do it. Except I have learned to put my foot down when its needed- and trust me my last relationship needed at least 3 times a week. I always blamed my lack of relationships on my being overweight when I was younger, but even now that I lost almost a whole other person off my stomach and thighs, I still don't seem to attract guys' attention. Even guys I don't know might take a glance or two over my way but nothing more that that. I'm not really picky at all. The only things I really won't stand for in a relationship are bad hygiene, bad attitudes, and the ones who are just oh so boring.. Please help me understand what I am doing wrong because I really am tired of being alone and ending up with the wrong guys.
By the way, most of these guys I dated who ran all over me were nice in the beginning and thats what I fell for, so how do I bypass all those guys?

professional help might work, but try doing it one step at a time. try talking to your current parner about it and see if the two of you can work things out bc if he really cares about you then he will be there for you through thick and thin to let you know that what had happened is in the past and there may not be anything you can do abt it. just know that whatever happened will come back to him times three. its called karma! i hope this helped you out. i did the best i could with what little information was given but i think that you will be ok. i wish you the best of luck!

ok speaking from experience, no.. they don't! and i was foolish enough at one point in time to believe my relationship could be different- that it could change the statement to be that yes they could work. of course after a couple of weeks of us dating i thought things were just peachy until my best friend at that time delivered "the message" yea he dumped me! and i didn't know until my true best friend told me that the one who delivered "the message" was talking to him behind my back, sending him text messages abt what they were gonna do, and sending him picture messages of, well, you can only imagine!
now i'm not gonna lie, but heck yea i was angry- big time! and if you know me, then you know i'm a lover and not a fighter but when things get this messed up- you had better watch out! lol well, when i found out, the deliverer was satying the night with me and so was the real best friend. yea she kept me in my room and calmed me down before i went back in there to where she was. i'm tellin you i was blood red in the face and bawling my eyes out bc i never thought that i could have been treated this way and especially by a "friend".. now that its all over i mean yea i've talked to her every once in a while but only bc i thank her for letting me know how he was and how she was so that i know not to make the same mistakes again. i learned 2 things from this.
1. long distance relationships are as bad as they sound and
2. when i got a new bf i never told her avt it or i would make sure they didn't get along! haha

wow! i didn't know dogs couldn't have grapes they're supposed to be healthy so i guess it never crossed my mind. thanks!

oh and a tip for anyone who has ever lost a pet to parvo or is losing one now from it:

dropper feed it gatorade! no it doesn't matter what kind.. when people are dehydrated, gatorade helps us out right? it does the same for dogs and cats too by putting back the nutrients lost.

my sister and i each had a dog a couple of years ago and my sisters dog, delmar, started getting sick and we didn't know what to do abt it until after he died when my mom took him to a vet to see what was going on. thats when we found out it was parvo and that my dog , q tip, might get it too. well, after q tip started getting sick my mom came home one day and told us abt a friend of hers at work whose dog had gotten it and she fed it gatorade and it lived! so i went ouside around 4 and 5 times a day to dropper feed her gatorade bc she absolutely refused to drink it herself and after a couple of days, i noticed she wasn't as sick as before and after 2 weeks or better she was completely rid of parvo! so thanks to my mom's friend who told us how to save an innocent puppy's life! :)

i'm new in here but too but i thought that was a great speech k.. if all guys thought like you, then the world of men would be great! you know you're kinda like the male version of oprah lol gotta love it! ;) peace