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Does Age matter?
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I have dated older than myself before. Personally, the dynamic works for
someone like myself, someone who has an old soul. However, and realistically, it can have drawbacks. Time is generally... for lack of better words, a bitch. Someone dating someone else who is older has to expect that the dating gets calmed down a little; more time in the house, clubs taste can differ, even movie choices and activities differ. Friends can play a big part: mature vs. immature (and no one has control over the stuff their friends do). For someone older, they have to be ready to accept that their mate is younger, and they are going to want to experience life on their own terms, and they can't play the big brother/sister or parent role. My advice? Evaluate the type person that your mate is and make a decision. I usually say that people should be looking at someone between five years younger and five years older so that they can be kinda be on the same page in life. Of course, there are exceptions, but not many. |
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