I have a mixed view. My mother married a black guy the second time around and they have two kids and a great life -- but there are struggles, and her family didn't always support their union. So when it comes to me, my moms is all for whatever I want.

My dad however, if not so understanding and probably wouldn't speak to me again if I dated a black man.

It is hard -- but I think in the end it is your happiness not theirs that will matter. Besides...not all white girls are crazy, just like all black guys aren't drug dealers.

Do what's right for you!

People would be surprised...that I have a blackbelt in Hapkido. =)