Thank you all my friends... First it was really helpful to know there are people who really cares and Im really grateful for your help...thank you all of you

I'm sure there is.

But as others are trying to say, you need to change how you go about finding her. For one, women find desperation unattractive -- which you already know because you said you feel there's something wrong about it.

I realize your culture is a bit different from ours. Perhaps one reason why you're struggling is because you don't feel like you fit in well with society you live in?

If so, you can actually use that to your advantage. You just need to learn how.

One thing is that you need to put more effort in than perhaps you realize. That doesn't mean try harder. You need to try smarter actually.

As we were just discussing in another thread, people need to find ways to place themselves in areas where opportunity may present itself, such as if you like music then go to concerts, music festivals, local shows, etc. When opportunity does arise, you then must be prepared to seize that opportunity before it slips away. If you do but it does not work out, think about what you learned from the appearance that may help you improve your approach when the next opportunity arises.

But I'm no guru. There are far wiser people on this site who could help you. I simply may be able to help you better understand the advice those people may give you.

No it was really wise.. Thank you for your time and Im gonna change my attitude into relation and the way I want to start talking to a girl...thanks again

I know this is something wrong to find a partner out of loneliness but is there someone out there who wants to be with me??