I know this is something wrong to find a partner out of loneliness but is there someone out there who wants to be with me??

We can't answer the unknown.

I showed your post to female friend of mine & she said.. No.. He is desperate
good luck on your search

You're doing it all wrong.

I'm sure there is.

But as others are trying to say, you need to change how you go about finding her. For one, women find desperation unattractive -- which you already know because you said you feel there's something wrong about it.

I realize your culture is a bit different from ours. Perhaps one reason why you're struggling is because you don't feel like you fit in well with society you live in?

If so, you can actually use that to your advantage. You just need to learn how.

One thing is that you need to put more effort in than perhaps you realize. That doesn't mean try harder. You need to try smarter actually.

As we were just discussing in another thread, people need to find ways to place themselves in areas where opportunity may present itself, such as if you like music then go to concerts, music festivals, local shows, etc. When opportunity does arise, you then must be prepared to seize that opportunity before it slips away. If you do but it does not work out, think about what you learned from the experience that may help you improve your approach when the next opportunity arises.

But I'm no guru. There are far wiser people on this site who could help you. I simply may be able to help you better understand the advice those people may give you.

NOPE, QUIT YOUR BELLY ACHING AND GO FIND A GAL. IM SURE THERE IS SOMEONE REAL SPECIAL WAITING FOR YOU, ENJOY

I'm sure there is.

But as others are trying to say, you need to change how you go about finding her. For one, women find desperation unattractive -- which you already know because you said you feel there's something wrong about it.

I realize your culture is a bit different from ours. Perhaps one reason why you're struggling is because you don't feel like you fit in well with society you live in?

If so, you can actually use that to your advantage. You just need to learn how.

One thing is that you need to put more effort in than perhaps you realize. That doesn't mean try harder. You need to try smarter actually.

As we were just discussing in another thread, people need to find ways to place themselves in areas where opportunity may present itself, such as if you like music then go to concerts, music festivals, local shows, etc. When opportunity does arise, you then must be prepared to seize that opportunity before it slips away. If you do but it does not work out, think about what you learned from the appearance that may help you improve your approach when the next opportunity arises.

But I'm no guru. There are far wiser people on this site who could help you. I simply may be able to help you better understand the advice those people may give you.

No it was really wise.. Thank you for your time and Im gonna change my attitude into relation and the way I want to start talking to a girl...thanks again

Amir - many of us are lonely. It takes PATIENCE to find a person with similar interests, someone you can really talk to... and then if they are near, take them to coffee or concert or church...whatever pleases the both of you. Stay on here awhile, you have to be patient. you look like a very nice young man, so don't get discouraged before you even start.

To be honest Amir your profile stinks. You need to tell the ladies out there about yourself. Let them know your interests, likes and dislikes. What your looking for in a partner.

Best of Luck to you.

I'm sure there is.

But as others are trying to say, you need to change how you go about finding her. For one, women find desperation unattractive -- which you already know because you said you feel there's something wrong about it.

I realize your culture is a bit different from ours. Perhaps one reason why you're struggling is because you don't feel like you fit in well with society you live in?

If so, you can actually use that to your advantage. You just need to learn how.

One thing is that you need to put more effort in than perhaps you realize. That doesn't mean try harder. You need to try smarter actually.

As we were just discussing in another thread, people need to find ways to place themselves in areas where opportunity may present itself, such as if you like music then go to concerts, music festivals, local shows, etc. When opportunity does arise, you then must be prepared to seize that opportunity before it slips away. If you do but it does not work out, think about what you learned from the appearance that may help you improve your approach when the next opportunity arises.

But I'm no guru. There are far wiser people on this site who could help you. I simply may be able to help you better understand the advice those people may give you.

No it was really wise.. Thank you for your time and Im gonna change my attitude into relation and the way I want to start talking to a girl...thanks again


Relax Amir
1st showing desperation with lo self esteem & then coming back with attitude? Please
Its dating site, it should be fun being here, getting to know people regardless of ( different cultures) that is what makes the world even more interesting.. Dating & getting to know someone for seek of fun, joy, pleasure in respect

If you say you can't answer the unknown, then you have to do something for it to end being unknown

Animal Lover great words! NIce to meet you here!

Amir nice to meet you. Before thinking how to do anything to find someone out there, it is important to look inside and find oneself to understand what you want. And guess what? If someone does not fit in this world it is because he came to help change it!

Thank you all my friends... First it was really helpful to know there are people who really cares and Im really grateful for your help...thank you all of you

We all wish you the best of Luck and hope you find what you are searching for.

Welcome to the asylum known as mingle.

I wish you the best of luck here.

Stick around and have fun. You just never know what you'll find in the basement of the asylum.

There is someone for everyone. Don't give up. Maybe lower your standards. Too many people wanting more than they offer. Good luck.

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